Stacey | Mom Anxiety Relief
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milkman0083 :
"Nobody talks about how resentful you can feel watching your partner relax when you technically could relax too but somehow can't" So you can relax too, but can't, and that's somehow his fault?
2026-09-06 19:57:15
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Relearning to Live :
you have no idea how exhausting it is to be with a woman who has such control issue that if things aren't done on her schedule the exact way she wants, she gets upset and accuses you of "not seeing" the things that SHE decided are now necessities. he will do the dishes when he sees they need to be done. A couple dishes in the sink is not an emergency and relaxing while they sit there is not a problem 🙄
2026-09-01 17:10:37
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Mmc :
the same feeling when you get home as a solo provider from work to see the housework not done
2026-09-06 09:40:08
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JM :
After spending years in the manufacturing industry, I did the stay at home dad thing for a while. It was an absolute vacation. No intense heat to work in while wearing heavy PPE. No production numbers to hit. No quotas or deadlines to meet. No problems to solve. Nothing heavy to lift. Nothing labor intensive. Nothing difficult. No machines to repair while burning sweat dripped into my eyes. No workplace drama and no boss breathing down my neck. Dishes, laundry, dusting, sweeping, mopping, cleaning, disinfecting all completed before 10am...all done in the cold AC while wearing the clothes I slept in. Groceries? Ordered online and picked up. Scheduling appointments? That's a phone call and an entry on the cell phone calendar. Bills paid online or by phone. My stress meter never moved. Didn't need to "decompress." Didn't hit her with a list of grievances or problems when she came home. Turns out that a lot can be done in a short amount of time if you don't wait for commercial breaks, scroll/post/reply on social media or exchange endless texts with the bff. I suspect that it's not a workload problem. It's a time management thing.
2026-09-01 12:09:53
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user1633859781184 :
I work 60 hours most weeks he is at home watching tv on his days off. I shouldnt have to come home to a sink of dishes or laundry to be done. It’s the lack of consideration
2026-09-01 13:40:26
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babbityboopy :
this is not good for my misogyny
2026-09-06 19:18:20
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Jay🧡 :
Sometimes it’s something so small like leaving clothes on the floor or leaving the microwave open. It makes me so upset for no reason. I feel like he doesn’t notice anything
2026-09-01 19:10:51
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eepe :
The men in these comments who don’t get it likely wouldn’t get done… and i don’t see them mentioning what they do for their home 😂
2026-09-01 18:36:37
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DustinDoesPoker :
I promise you'll enjoy life a lot more when you realize that homes are meant to be lived in and they're never going to be spotlessly clean.
2026-09-01 22:26:45
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crownVic :
It is incredible that women don’t realize this is a personal anxiety problem they like to call the “mental load”
2026-09-01 21:19:26
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ca955 :
none of it matters on your deathbed. it's about the memories and time you've spent with people. I understand if your husband does nothing but some people love to be in a state of low level manic thoughts/can't settle.
2026-09-06 18:17:37
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ZL0gic :
this is actually anxiety and possibly OCD. you should get some help
2026-09-01 21:59:46
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The Brit aka Vick Toryus :
Interesting viewpoint. be kind to yourself please. You're part of a jigsaw that has to last a long time. 🥰
2026-09-05 19:27:52
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psychomushroom :
some of you don't get it. I work like this. and I know it. I'm working on it. it's not fun for me either. it's just how my brain works. I notice these things and it's like this itch I can't scratch unless it's done now and it's done right. and sometimes I wait because I'm tired and I want to relax too. but then 3 weeks go by and I'm overstimulated and it's screaming at me to be done and no ones noticed it, I'm the only one that notices and I don't know why, and it bothers me that it doesn't bother you too. it's not that yall don't do enough, or that we want you to be stressed with us or anything like that. we're tired of our own brains being like this and not understanding why yours isn't too. it's heaviness that's so hard to describe.
2026-09-02 04:26:08
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user2881164515141 :
Ohhhh, his latest thing when other people comment about it is; she like to be busy. Im like bullshit! My hobbies are reading, naps and puzzles. I just dont get to do them anymore because he is so lazy
2026-09-01 21:46:07
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Rachel :
It's a real joy to be a woman..
2026-09-02 17:01:57
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Breonte Jaron :
not people are mad at this. because if everybody just relaxed....nothing would get done. dirt accumulates. bugs come into play...hair,dust, etc. or your kids or pets may not be tended to. and with one person doing it and making sure to actively work on these things causes a shift in dynamic.
2026-09-01 21:39:33
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Suvari :
He sees it too. Just decides not to do anything about it and leaves it for me to do later.
2026-09-02 03:46:14
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erinkissedbyfire :
"Babe, what are you doing? Come in here and sit down with me" Uhhhh... You left a liquid on the wood table (which is uncovered because you got the tablecloth wet and stained and it never got covered again) which will leave a mark, so I have to clean that up, then se the crumbs and clean those too. Realize there is random water around the kitchen sink, wipe that down too. Now I have to pee and see ALL the little issues in the bathroom. Then realize there is laundry to be done before zi get too comfortable and lose track of time, so I head upstairs to get that, notice the stairs are dusty -log that one away for later, along with all the things I didn't do yet in the bathroom.... "Nah Babe, I gotta clean up a bit"
2026-09-01 21:17:32
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jrzimmrmn :
Weaponized anxiety
2026-09-02 00:16:02
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banned17 :
but you didnt mention any bills just your responsibilities .
2026-09-01 22:01:43
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TonyKoch :
I've been married 39 yrs I'm sure Ive annoyed her..... but she's never bashed me on the internet ....
2026-09-01 20:18:58
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Nicole Bell :
My spouse pulled the rug out of the dryer and ignored the towels from the same load. This happened after they literally said how much work I had done that day. It just never clicks does it?!? 😳
2026-09-01 04:04:40
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David Talley :
fastest way to piss a woman off is to be a man who looks content
2026-09-02 00:33:19
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. :
Literally. I work 3 jobs and always tell my husband, when I finally get home for the day, I’m clocking into my 4th because I work from the moment I walk in until bedtime
2026-09-01 21:06:21
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