I can very well take years. But I certainly wouldn’t be around to repent for a mistake I’ve taken full accountability for, changed behaviors and lifestyle if it’s taken years of consistency to approve. I don’t think any mistake should be used as a kugel to bash someone on the head with for years to come. Either accept the change and consistency or leave
2026-09-05 18:45:43
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CoconutCarrier47 :
lol still cracked
2026-09-01 02:49:46
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EU :
People who are cheated on should leave. Entertain no other options but leaving.
2026-09-05 13:24:59
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Mitch hudson :
I wish I could articulate this as well as you. I was cheated on the same week I lost 3 family members. It’s been a year now and I can’t bring it up on this app because people tell me to “get over it” and they can’t decide how I talk about my life etc so thankyou I appreciate this post
2026-09-01 05:25:45
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Howl_Ballyhoo :
Cheating is the end of the relationship. It’s over. Learn from it and try to do better. Staying together is the dumbest thing you can ever do.
2026-09-02 19:37:56
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Qantas629 :
I’m still suffering from wandering eye behavior, even four years later
2026-09-01 14:08:16
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doctoreusabius :
so if it was 13 years ago are the feelings still valid?
2026-09-02 09:46:30
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defnotmike :
its been 10 years, I'll never forgive, I'll never forget
2026-09-03 21:16:07
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hxshhii :
this is an immature take. as someone thats been cheated on, i dont see the point in continuing to bring it up. if you’re not gonna be willing to let it go, just leave the cheater & heal. why stay & hang it over their heads?
2026-09-02 01:12:22
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lala ꨄ :
you are one of the most influential people on this app and i stand by that.
2026-09-01 02:20:43
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Hannah Wallace :
I don’t get cheated I got abused but still
2026-09-01 11:06:00
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RobSal2.0 :
The girl I’m dating now was cheated on by her most recent ex while she was in Chemo treatment 😑
2026-09-02 23:03:32
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Piccolo :
imagine a world where he actually took accountability and cared. wish I could have lived in that one :/
2026-09-01 12:21:46
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🌷Blakely🦈Elizabeth🌺 :
You get it💗
2026-09-01 02:25:12
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Mr. Yay :
If someone cheats on you, and you forgive them to continue the relationship, you just said they are allowed to do it again. Get rid of them…..once a cheater always a cheater
2026-09-04 08:17:03
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Billy Harkins❌ :
never stay with a cheater because they will eventually do it again
2026-09-03 20:13:46
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Beer money inc :
Fair point.
2026-09-03 01:53:44
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Asiawolf🐺💜 :
I’m told to get over it and or the typical speech I said I was sorry (followed by verbal abu,,,), or just let it go as they repeat their actions over and over. Yes one can walk away and heal from things, but it’s never just a flip the switch get over it scenario. Those who have never experienced will never it sadly
2026-09-02 04:11:53
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Mandie :
PERIOD QUEEN!!! 👸
2026-09-02 03:01:35
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FitGuy57 :
My wife and I divorced after 16 years of marriage due to her multiple infidelities. I worked through the pain and God restored me but if it’s lasting years I question if you have ever forgiven to begin with.
2026-09-02 15:29:43
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Sarah💫 :
it is better to just be single then wrestle w this person for their trust and bond again
2026-09-01 22:06:55
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knack :
The pain of getting cheated on never goes away
2026-09-01 14:15:57
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Trin :
love you queen
2026-09-04 00:08:56
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Jonny :
The fact that the person hurting you can never take a step back to acknowledge that they’re hurting you. Even when you spent years building something with that person. It blows my mind how cruel some people can be after they make you fall in love with them.
2026-09-04 00:01:44
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k :
she's a midnight ballerina 😂
2026-09-04 14:55:38
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