Saretta_Ginger03 :
until a week ago, he was constantly reaching out to me, saying he was always thinking about me and couldn't bear to lose me... but the day before yesterday he didn't contact me at all, whereas yesterday evening he did reach out, picking up right where my last message left off. During the days when he didn't reach out, I didn't give him a second thought because I was busy, yet I felt calm and at peace... but today, seeing how he actsโlike someone who wants me in his life without actually showing itโI decided to block him everywhere. He even reached out to me via email, saying Iโm childish and that he isnโt obligated to obsessively chase after meโsince Iโm just his ex and he doesnโt have to try to win me overโand that if he wants to see and kiss me, heโll just do it... I am mature and have self-worth, and I absolutely do not agree with that mindset; in what way is this asshole supposed to be a reflection of me? How is it that I have high self-worth and high standards, yet he reflects this garbage back at me? He messed up with me before, during, and after the relationship; if he wants me in his life, he has to prove it by showing upโboth in person and via chatโand actually saying hello... He wants everything without making the slightest effort. With me, itโs all or nothing, and if thatโs how heโs going to play it, he gets nothing.
2026-09-10 20:12:13