@efysdsg: At the family reunion, my sister's kids got $500 each from grandma. My three kids got nothing. When my son asked why, grandma said loudly, "Because your mommy made bad choices, and you're the result." My son was six. I picked up my crying children and left without a word. That night, I removed Grandma from my lakehouse deed, the family vacation home she bragged about owning. When she tried to book it for her 75th birthday and found out she had zero legal rights.