@thehealingcleric: Reaching out to an avoidant after they pull away can leave you feeling even more rejected. Sometimes the coldest response is the answer you need—not the one you wanted. Protect your peace and stop chasing someone who has chosen distance. #AvoidantAttachment #DismissiveAvoidant #NoContact #RelationshipAdvice #Healing
after a year he revealed that his younger colleague who he weaponise to me, now he is posting for her with her picture on it in ig.
2026-09-01 20:20:08
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crazymum495 :
How do I get closure or do I just have to let it go??
2026-09-01 20:34:16
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. :
No contact 20 days, photo of me removed from fb 7days ago, phone call breakup after vacation, from planing a future and life together to most cold hearted breakup out of the blue. Just 8-9h before we were talking, laughing and he told me that he can’t wait to see me. We were just about to go long distance until I finish my college… he will never text me or call me ever again he said that, and he said not to wait for him also….I am devastated…
2026-09-01 18:27:40
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Shuichi nakajima :
or if you confront them about it they'll just say
"idk how to respond to that" ✌️
2026-09-01 04:25:30
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kdisassterous :
seen him for the first time since we broke up yesterday. he locked eyes but didnt say one word
2026-09-01 12:24:25
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princess 👑 :
facts
2026-09-01 20:52:28
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Ren :
Me as fearful's watching this after my dismissive reached out to me and I gave cold-hearted reply, cuz my dismissive earlier did the same in this vid :
2026-09-01 17:40:51
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abcde123 :
Or the typical ‘’sorry I made u feel this way’’ yawn
2026-09-01 16:18:36
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OswaldPlays :
dealing with this right now. its so frustrating!
2026-09-01 05:19:07
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khaninnit :
He blocked me on WhatsApp so I messaged on insta and was like please block on everything, make it count. Still hasn’t blocked me on a few accounts!
2026-09-01 15:02:31
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tipsey02 :
but what turns them into an avoidant..........🤔
2026-09-01 15:47:53
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randigand :
do they ever come back tho
2026-09-01 11:40:04
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YukonBeauty :
True
2026-09-01 14:39:12
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Sam :
Yes please keep motivating us
2026-09-01 06:57:31
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Rachid S :
Oi.. if i would open up my story about that someone. 8 years ago we had a heavy discussion and she went to the police to file a report about not leaving her alone. I was interested in her. she didnt at that time. Now all these years later she is married 7 years. i am married for 4 years. she still didnt become a parent. i did. i tried to reach out couple weeks ago to talk about that shit from years ago. she immediately avoided my presence and did as if i was a ghost. and blocked my personal snapchat where i reached out to talk. even after that, every time we see eachother at a store she immediately drives away taking other routes so i couldnt follow her 😂
But didnt block my business accounts 😂 Like why tho?
She saw me with my wife and kid at the swap meet last weekend. My wife knows the situation, she also noticed that lady was uncomfortable seeing us live a normal married life. while she survived a year breakup with her husband and went back with him. jealousy is a bihh.
2026-09-01 14:53:35
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Mathew :
mine came back yesterday after 18 months
2026-09-01 16:39:24
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ella :
i wrote him a text saying that I'm worried that us divorcing is gonna affect our son,and that I'm very anxious. he said why are you sending me paragraphs 😐
2026-09-01 12:07:57
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Safiyyah Patel :
It’s frustrating when you’re dealing with something administrative and they don’t even respond to that 😂
2026-09-01 10:08:55
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Wasim Rajput :
True 💔
2026-09-01 17:45:04
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luckyducky1908 :
Oh I needed this today thank you..I really had the urge to reach out again but the last time I did I got exactly that a cold response it was like I didn’t even know him 😭😭
2026-09-01 16:29:20
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cherylejuanitapoprilo :
They are damn immature cowards please heal go to therapy 🤔🤔
2026-09-01 21:02:41
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