@sagaciousmilano: The proverb means that a man who becomes overly obsessed with investigating or judging a woman’s past may end up destroying his own chances of having a relationship. In simpler terms: If you dig too deeply into someone’s past, you may discover things you cannot accept, leaving you permanently single. Lesson: Focus on who a person is today and whether you can build a healthy future together, rather than endlessly dwelling on what has already happened. #african #proverb #quotes #marriage #younggeneration