@coach.ryan0: The busy, busy avoidant 🐝 They have time for work, the gym, hobbies, errands, friends, projects… and every side quest imaginable. But emotional intimacy? Quality time? Repairing the relationship? Sorry, no openings available. 🤡 They aren’t always “too busy.” Sometimes busyness is just emotional avoidance with an impressive résumé. #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #EmotionallyUnavailable #AttachmentTheory #RelationshipTok
Coach Ryan
Region: US
Tuesday 01 September 2026 11:55:31 GMT
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Heather & Chase :
When they first meet you, you come FIRST. Once you get close, then the rest follows. RUN! Honestly the worst experience of my life
2026-09-01 22:28:55
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audiq53 :
He’s was always too busy for me yet had all the time in the world for everyone else
2026-09-01 16:04:27
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Amy B. Johnson :
Why do they even date?
2026-09-02 00:19:52
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Marbie :
He always says “soon” soon never comes
2026-09-02 03:35:07
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_usernotfound_1430 :
They call their hobbies “work”. They treat their friends and strangers better than their significant other.
2026-09-01 17:09:48
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Teresa 🪽 :
Busiest unbusy person I’ve ever met 😳
2026-09-02 02:11:38
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SK :
You nailed it to the point! Will they ever learn a lesson?
2026-09-06 17:15:59
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✨sparkle Soul✨ :
avoid the avoidant😂😂😂😂😂
2026-09-02 01:44:35
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Heidi4829 :
His conversations with me were all about everything he had to do! He would call and tell me everything he had to do, and then quickly say "welI I have to go". ok, umm, you called me...
2026-09-01 16:27:54
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Janine :
Why are we still calling them avoidant.They are just not interested! They like to have multiple ppl around them feeding there ego,that’s all .
2026-09-01 21:55:06
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🫧 :
It’s literally torture. I question myself daily. Am I doing too much, am I not doing enough. Did I make them feel weird. It’s a roller coaster of emotion and every day is different. I don’t want to walk away but I’ve had to step back to not lose myself. The thing is, they notice almost immediately and will not let me go and I don’t know how to feel anymore.
2026-09-02 07:30:42
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Samantha Matson :
The guy I am currently talking to 🥺
2026-09-01 23:02:48
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cocotheloco84 :
We spent 4 years with „quality time „ on every tuesday and thursday from 7pm to 9pm no other spot available 😂 and if someone else called him and want to meet i just lost my spot and had to wait till next appointment.
2026-09-01 12:18:34
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ᖴᎧχᎩ🇨🇦🦊 :
This sounds exactly like the guy I’ve been seeing. Always to busy for me but never to busy for anyone or anything else. I know he cares about me, and I know he feels that connection but I honestly believe he’s scared of it and that’s why he keeps me at an arms length. I’m getting exhausted and getting ready to walk away from it. I’ll always care and have deep feelings for him but I can’t do this much longer. 😔😢
2026-09-02 12:03:29
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Anna Sheppard :
They are defective bc they refuse to deal with it.
2026-09-01 14:12:34
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ldnfoodcrush :
They are busy sitting their lazy asses on the sofa scrolling 😂 but also have the whole time in the world for unimportant ppl in their life
2026-09-01 21:29:30
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Mary Linn :
dating sites are full of these..
2026-09-02 04:04:34
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Iam_Joann🦋 :
Jus busy doin nuttin! 🥰🤣
2026-09-01 21:39:10
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foreveverchaos :
no one is that busy.
2026-09-02 06:04:07
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Paintlife.ca :
They are busy but they expect cuddles at night while you are trying to sleep.
2026-09-01 14:45:35
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whatsausername :
busy with work, ironing clothes, getting things together for the next day. but gets tattoos, hangs with friends/family. talks to other women. the moment im like hey lets grab a drink "no im too stressed I dont want to be around people" proceeds to go to the bar
2026-09-01 15:53:39
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Sam :
I lived this for 2 years of a 4 year relationship. I left I couldn’t do it anymore. Sad
2026-09-01 12:20:22
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theekevinjay :
This is exactly what I went through.
2026-09-02 06:16:17
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mariam_g.w :
Idc they should not have bothered me and made me suffer
2026-09-02 04:31:29
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Josh :
so when you try and fix that and do everything right they throw it all away and drop you?? 😭😭
2026-09-01 21:03:35
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