@saysomethingmichael: Most people are taught that being polite is a good thing. It is. But politeness should never require you to repeatedly ignore your own discomfort. An awkward interaction doesn’t automatically mean someone is testing you. The pattern matters. But someone looking for exploitable boundaries may pay very close attention to what you tolerate because you don’t want to seem rude. What’s harder for you: saying “no” or dealing with someone’s reaction afterward? #psychology #humanbehavior #predatorybehavior #groomingawareness #boundaries

Kaz T :

This is definitely my biggest problem.

lisa.laurens44 :

Parents who raised their children to be submissive groomed them to become people pleaser’s adult. It’s not enough discussed in our society.

arcs_and_attitude :

This scene in Fruits Basket was eye opening for me as a teen. Some people really are looking at who isn’t paying attention or willing to push back.

ItsAllGolden777 :

I was walking up to a birthday party for my adopted nephew’s 10th birthday. It was the first time for me meeting any of his extended family besides his mom. And, walking in too was his ‘grandpa’ who gives me a hug and when letting go gives my bra strap a quick tug. I never said anything. I should have. When I say adopted I mean that I helped babysit him when his mom needed help. Just b/c they are being introduced as a sweet old grandpa doesn’t mean they are.

Sam.Kunther :

sometimes we forget that there's a breaking point and people snap... People can be polite until they've had enough. Nice people are also wearing a mask and their real face is nasty,

Jesus or Nothing ✝️ :

Dang fruits basket being the search

⚡️⛓️Mārainthe389⛓️⚡️ :

damn all of your videos are right on the money

B B L R Travel :

I had a coworker. VERY likable down to eart, but she never rocked the boat at work. We had an administrator (that ended up being g fired) came into her classroom at LEAST 12 times, before the quarter was over. That means he came in room about 3 times a week. He went in no one else’s room that often.

W/C/K/foreverGreen :

tit for tat.... I will be rude right back😏.

Amanda :

Me when I say boundaries really loud when they do anything…as a social worker

blahblahhh :

thank you I appreciate this advice.

MindJesusNotMe :

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💯💯💯👏🏻👏🏻 you are so spot on

Iba~ni :

Maybe I’m testing them by seeing how far they will push

Brittney :

I'm dealing with this now but from a woman. IDK why and I want to get away from her but I can't because its at my job.

Sophie :

yeah, thats me 😒

Brastrapkilla :

This.

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DJ :

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LifeGavemeLemons :

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