@not5hahem: #dojacat #empathy

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hanayng16
laan :
we’ve lost the plot and no longer strive for accountability and apology. we’re obsessed with punishment.
2026-09-01 17:14:05
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itsjayzpov
itsjayzpov :
this how i know “accountability” culture isn’t real. it’s always “this person needs to address this” until they address it, then it’s “too late”and “they could never make me like you anyways” or “this isn’t enough”. and then they actively take steps to rectify it, and then it’s “they’re trying to make us forget” 💀 you can’t win
2026-09-01 15:00:38
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bbylaneybear
bbylaneybear :
such a good thread on twt
2026-09-01 22:17:36
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caramelslug
Slug God :
A lot of people act like cops. They got a cop’s mentality.
2026-09-01 16:33:09
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pedagogyofthedepressed
little mx. libra(rian) :
Shame k*lls people. Empathy is everything
2026-09-01 15:37:03
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huluyss
huluyss :
She was a biracial woman born and raised in California, to a white mom biracial in a white suburb and abandoned by a black father. All of that is really an uphill battle in loving your blackness. It almost feels unfair to judge her considering it is ALOT easier for people say like...born in the black belt and raised by and around black people to foster a sense of self love and a lot of us still dont. It gives victim blaming lowkey.
2026-09-01 13:39:40
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arcanum.xx
arcanum.xx (St. Khaos) :
I’m reading the comments and it’s honestly baffling to me how many people are talking as if she did something to them personally. Talking about “I don’t forgive her” “it’s gonna take time for her to earn my forgiveness”… like what are we talking about? Like am I alone in thinking that sounds ridiculous? She doesn’t know us and she doesn’t need our forgiveness. Only person that she needs to forgive is herself and that’s what she’s doing. It’s very weird and parasocial to think you “forgiving” her is important at all.
2026-09-01 16:01:20
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josentavideo
Jo :
Her comments were so discouraging 💔
2026-09-01 13:14:49
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shannoona
Shannoona | Artist :
She’s badass for being vulnerable so publicly
2026-09-01 15:05:16
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angelinasnips
angelinasnips :
Allow people the room to change and grow.
2026-09-01 15:25:48
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kiarajailise
kiarazawa :
Her comment section is so disheartening
2026-09-01 13:40:32
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gamerdemiigod
GamingDemiGod :
I literally did not like her and she gave a transparent explanation for the reasons why and NOW I have to like her.
2026-09-01 13:29:59
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amandaloriann25
Amanda Lori-Ann :
I mean but are we going to forget that doja literally called her fans "weird" for relating to her music in a vulnerable and emotional way? why should her vulnerability and emotions be met with more respect and empathy than she gave others??
2026-09-02 14:21:28
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ashleeta
Ashleeta :
I appreciated it I don’t know what else she can do ….
2026-09-02 16:01:21
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strl1212
STRL :
What’s sad is she sees the comments I really wish she’s like other celebs who don’t see them nasty mentally ill comments her opening to us like that was one of her biggest fears and her therapist said that the biggest part of the healing is telling what your so scared of telling and I’m really proud of her so fcking much cuz stuff like this killed people
2026-09-02 13:48:03
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fullylotus
lotus :
literally can’t win on the internet if you’re not perfect,,
2026-09-02 13:22:01
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jarv365
Jarvon :
I wish she made this video in 2020
2026-09-02 15:53:28
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nobodysrolemodel
Kinjark :
For second I thought Doja was on shirt
2026-09-01 16:28:53
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akam904
☀️ akam90 🌑 :
shared things that too many people would neverrrr admit
2026-09-01 17:56:11
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lunasene_
trinity 月影♡ 🐦‍🔥 :
shes like 30 dude 😭 i guess it could be excusable if some of her wildest offenses werent 3 yrs prior. but we have got to stop holding space for ppl to “change” when they need to feel the consequences of their actions in a real way. like u can think shes cool and u can enjoy her style and aesthetic/music but shes not entitled to anyones empathy or forgiveness. you can enjoy her. i feel like the response only even exists cus shes tired of ppl spamming racial chat rooms in all of her comment sections
2026-09-01 22:01:32
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aestheticsavant
Franc :
Yes! But I also feel Doja hurt herself more than anyone else. So I don’t get why people are making it seem like she hurt someone else.
2026-09-01 17:28:02
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ssssshley
𝖘𝖘𝖘𝖘𝖘𝖍𝖑𝖊𝖞 🍒 :
what’s crazy is I see her younger self’s experience in a lot of the black youth in fandom spaces that are predominantly white
2026-09-01 14:53:45
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barefootbug
barefootbug :
not everyone has to hold space for her. when i was a little girl i was looking for other little black girls like me but they were all assimilating and okay with racist jokes. if i knew better in hs, so did she. for all those saying “how did it affect YOU” it affects all of us.
2026-09-01 18:16:02
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tyldy4043
ty :
Yeah , i'm not impressed by the apology like she waited too long
2026-09-01 20:09:34
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sleepyleems
Leems! :
it needs to be understood there’s no age requirement for growth and we need to respect that we’re all human
2026-09-01 14:16:22
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