mariam! i realized i’ve been operating from “okay you had a bad thought, it’s fine, just decide again” instead of not even being bothered that my human side is having those thoughts. it’s like even if i have those thoughts, let her have them, it doesn’t mean anything about me. he’s gonna find a 3p. ok, im sure, he doesn’t want a rel, ok, he’s not committed .. ok! even when i’m in my head it’s like “it doesn’t matter” but there’s also no need to say that either bc i already know it doesn’t.. does that make sense ?? am i understanding this correctly? but i also have seen mary say that the character doesn’t exist or something like that but im not too sure i understand that part! what do you think? love uuuu🩵🫶🏼
2026-09-01 16:03:46
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Mariam 🧚🏼♀️ :
Omg I got cut off at the end 😭😭I meant to say: it just means that the EGO is what’s being triggered (both, by the neutral situation at hand, and by your new perception). I promise you, when you shift your perception and allow an identity to “marinate” (you stop allowing the egoic thoughts, feelings, and circumstances to mean something about you), your thoughts will naturally shift. The ego being panicked ≠ you are doing something wrong!
2026-09-01 15:18:51
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Jazzy | LOA Coach :
That discomfort means you're choosing something different which is the whole point!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
2026-09-01 15:35:56
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bella 🖤🇺🇸 :
it can feel so big, but after you get over the mental hurdle, it was actually not big after all lol 🥰
2026-09-01 15:16:11
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Erica Sky 🌒✨🩰 :
Yup!! Discomfort is fundamental (as Reno puts it!) it’s OKAY!!! It only “sucks” in the beginning 💖💖💖💖
2026-09-01 16:53:32
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4th Dimension Farrah :
Yes truly! a new identify feels different - and sometimes like anxiety or discomfort. but emotions mean nothing without your identification of them! ego will give you 100000 excuses as to why it’s not possible for you to have what you want/ be what you want. but that’s limited!
2026-09-02 04:42:44
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Princessnat4D :
I love this, when I tell you it gets better oh my god it gets better & easier! 🥺
2026-09-02 16:50:03
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sahara__desert :
Idk why it was a super easy switch for me maybe cause im a Gemini? And im a stubborn one too 😭
2026-09-01 19:40:57
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Alicia :
when I am in the identity I sometimes don't know what to do with myself because if everything is done I don't have anything to do.. I'll do my hobbies and feel freer as I carry on with my day but there are moments where, even while knowing who I am and what I have, my brain slips slightly back into a "waiting mode" and I get bored 🫠
2026-09-01 15:18:47
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Warda Ait :
after few months of work,today is one of the worst day,the ego is so strong today.....telling me all the negative thoughts.
2026-09-01 15:49:53
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venus :
i always tell myself that i always get what i want no matter what because everything is already here!
2026-09-01 15:37:04
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gia :
Yes 100% I also think maybe for myself my biggest shift was not letting people tell me what’s wrong or right like if he does this he doesn’t love you it’s really about choosing for yourself what you want what you desire not your ego telling you no u have to choose this or that it’s a very large and scary shift because my entire idenity was built off stories I heard from outside myself so really trusting myself and choosing for myself has been a scary experience it’s really about choosing for yourself not judging yourself and the ego will do crazy shit throw things at you like what does this mean oh why did he look at me like that 🥰
2026-09-02 08:00:10
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banan :
guys the feeling I feel in my body is so great, what should I do fr
2026-09-01 22:35:00
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Schinken1000 :
Thank you for talking about body reactions. I’ve had strong anxiety while choosing different things or when I started to experience them in the 3D and I had those exact thoughts of what if this means something bad or wrong what if it’s terrible and it is nice to hear that others have experienced that as well ❤️
2026-09-01 19:15:11
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sarah :
This is actually so validating, i decided i wanted to tap into my dark feminine energy and style and I always felt like i was ‘pretending’ to be someone im not like it wasn’t really me but i really do align with that new mindset
2026-09-01 18:27:59
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Jalisa :
Since understanding the ego it has made a lot of sense to certain things I used to feel or think where an issue.
2026-09-02 16:31:34
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Reno Vasaturo :
This is gold 🔥
2026-09-01 15:57:36
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ℛei ᨳଓ :
hii queen coming back to this again so i always affirm im loved and believe it right but i always am anxious and compare how ppl treat me vs treating other ppl like my friend or friends like are dry to me but overhyped happier texting other ppl?
2026-09-02 15:30:39
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Amira Gharbi :
:someone told me that if your manifestation does not working yet and you are persisting,it might be time to consider that you've actually just been obsessing and calling it persistence is that true?
2026-09-01 16:50:32
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anaaa :
i feel like i have sélected a while ago just to be attacked now oddly by my thoughts and insecurities when i really thought that it was supposed to get better but i was surprised to face à loot of negative thoughts and fears
2026-09-01 15:54:46
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L :
Hi i so Manifestation is Instant and I watched alot of Videos how to manifest its always the Same way just Act /feel as if right? So i tried today morning to manifest that school is canceled it Didnt work I Even picked something „smaller“ but i dont know if I have limiting beliefs or smth thanks for answering💕
2026-09-03 09:29:48
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priveun :
created a whole separate account to ask questions hehe. me and my sp just separated w few weeks ago due to miscommunication and stress from life on their end.
for the past week, whenever i have a negative thought about my sp, like intrusive thoughts like how we are not together in the 3d, i will tell myself that me and sp are happily together,
but i recently started wondering if this could actually be me identifying with lack, because im only saying that in response to a thought that implies we aren't together
would it be more aligned to focus on my identity/self-concept instead? for example, things like “i am loved, i am chosen, i am secure, i am worthy of love” rather than repeatedly reminding myself of the specific circumstance that my SP and i are together?
because if i genuinely identify as someone who is already with my SP, wouldnt i naturally know that rather than constantly needing to tell myself “me and my SP are together” whenever the 3D triggers a negative thought?
im curious how you would distinguish between thinking from the desired reality and using affirmations to counteract the feeling of lack.
2026-09-02 13:16:11
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Jelly :
hey Mariam, I understand that I'm doing everything right because I decide that but why aren't I still seeing it?
2026-09-03 15:13:32
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