@helsmcp: Got a kid starting primary school? About to become a school run mum? Here’s everything I wish I’d known when I started. #mums #parenting #backtoschool #startingschool

Helen McPherson
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Tuesday 01 September 2026 16:02:53 GMT
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Jane xoxo :
Rule No 1 - you're kids are there to make unforgettable friends, not you! 😳😂
2026-09-01 16:39:02
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lisaxmarie84
lisaxmarie :
get in get out. the moms are not your friends
2026-09-01 17:03:10
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jjjjr0909
Joanna :
30 years down the line and my Mum is still really good friends with 4 of the Mums from my primary school. When did everyone get so anti social 😳 I am always looking for new friends!
2026-09-01 18:37:59
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angel78187
Angel :
oh but the group chats remind me to bring £1 and non uniform days etc!!
2026-09-01 17:53:47
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rachellong073
Rachel Long123 :
'just take another one that fits' 😂😂
2026-09-01 18:48:21
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cassiem192
cassie :
I love our group chat. My mum went into hospital last week and 4 different mums looked after my two at different times so I could be with my mum, on the last snow day I had 8 other children at my house because it was my day off so they didn’t have to stress about no school. One of the mums lost her mum last month and she messaged to ask for help with school run and half a dozen of us took it in turn to pick her little girl up and have her over for tea. There are also 3 separate times I would have tried to take my children to school on an inset day if it hadn’t been for that WhatsApp group.
2026-09-03 12:57:12
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conniegeez
ConnieGeez :
I second the group chat - join no chats at all. No groups, no chats, no PTA. I’m the mum who’s not on social media so I miss all the drama dross. As soon as your kids can, lob them on the bus with their mates, then you’re a ghost to school other than the few mum’s of the kids mates - that is it.
2026-09-01 16:22:07
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laurenmartin101
Lauren Martin :
Group chats are really handy to be fair. Great for reminders, school collections, lost things, party invite chase ups, just finding numbers for certain parents you may need
2026-09-01 19:36:42
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sideshowauds
Sideshowauds :
mine are 21 and nearly 17, they love a chat when I am getting ready for bed the quite often will just flop on the bed. the youngest tucks me in every night 😍😂
2026-09-01 16:29:14
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daisycar88
Daisycar88 :
I saw a video like this before my kids were school age and thought it was nonsense but I’m now 4 years into school runs and it’s all hauntingly accurate.
2026-09-02 08:15:49
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clee235
Claire🥰 :
if I see 'Toyota yaris mum who ALWAYS wears her pyjamas' I know I'm about 10 seconds away from the gates closing and having to sign my kid in at reception
2026-09-02 13:54:30
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amyhwilliams
Amy H Purdie :
But why do they give your the teabag and poem! It’s so unhelpful 😂😂😂😂
2026-09-01 18:39:35
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mpbroadhurst
Martin Broadhurst :
the group chat... Jesus Christ. "Yes, Rachel, PE day is wednesday. Same as last week, the week before, and since the start of the academic year. It's June, why TF are you still asking?!"
2026-09-03 07:32:16
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rosieelangley
Rosie-Ellen :
Helen 😭😭 needed this, Thankyou so much. My 4 year has gone to bed tonight and tomorrow I take her to school and I’m so nervous 😭 xxx
2026-09-01 21:47:35
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blindboldandbeautiful
A-lex-is | Living Slower 🇬🇧 :
World book day in March - decide how you want to handle. Put a reminder of what “housecolour” they are suddenly asked to wear house colour tshirt. Have a stash of raffle prizes in the cupboard on hand, and same for cakes for when the plate gets sent home, oh and a stash of £1 coins for when those are suddenly needed … my youngest is in his final year of secondary, these are still things that traumatise me ….
2026-09-01 16:26:12
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sammummyconqueringanxiet
Sam B • UGC • Blogger 🧑‍💻 :
The poem and the tea bag. Nursery gave me a cup as well. I cried my eyes out in the car. I can confirm all of this is so true 🤣🤣🤣
2026-09-01 18:11:14
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anaveragemuppet
Charlie - anaveragemuppet :
My youngest just started high school today and she looked 18 in her blazer 😭😭😭😭😭 where did my 4 year old youngest baby go?!
2026-09-03 09:48:08
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callmeharris
callmeharris :
The group chat goes something like this. “When do the kids go back? Thursday. What?! Do they? Yep. I thought it was Monday the week after. It’s definitely not.” 😂😂😂
2026-09-02 09:00:20
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tammigreen1973
Tammi Green :
same spot for all three of my lads!!!!! bloody long time
2026-09-01 20:03:38
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life_with_key5
Key | 40+ Life | 🖤 :
I hate the group chat about the bleeding lost jumpers. 😂
2026-09-01 21:04:15
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lozholdy
lozholdy :
Carole smiley 🤣
2026-09-02 08:32:42
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bethanyjkinsman
Bethany :
Brilliant💛
2026-09-02 01:17:57
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zzzwana
Izzzzy :
We are more nervous about our girl starting school than her😢😢
2026-09-01 23:43:00
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shortieovhhey1987
Sarah Jane :
Mines 18 in November and still doesnt let me breathe 💖💖💖
2026-09-01 23:23:14
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reannelisha
Elisha Carrigan :
my daughter starts reception on Monday what on earth is this groupchat
2026-09-01 16:47:09
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