And here I am asking my bf to show me what goes on in Cyberpunk 😂
2026-09-01 17:53:03
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lavender_ :
if someone can't enjoy their own hobbies that is not a boundary in a relationship. thank you for pointing out the double standard on how control is seen in relationships!!
2026-09-01 16:24:41
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Fair and Sensitive Rainbow :
I couldn't imagine telling my partner what they can or cannot do. My partner can do whatever they want. That doesn't mean there aren't consequences. It's not my job to babysit another adult and make sure they behave. If they are going to do something that will harm our relationship, that will happen whether I allow it or not.
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Usually this kind of behavior is focused around cheating, so I'll use that example. A cheater will cheat, whether you restrict their freedoms or not. You might successfully make it harder for them to cheat, but is that ACTUALLY better? If my partner would cheat if given the opportunity, they are as good as a cheater to me.
2026-09-08 04:19:44
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rosereadsromance :
A boundary is something you set for yourself to protect your wellbeing and how you respond to something it’s not to stop your partner doing something you don’t like or enforcing behaviours you want or don’t want them to have … they’re using the wrong word
2026-09-01 16:31:52
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nikkis.nightmaress :
Nah ur take was valid why tf are people mad 😭
2026-09-01 16:36:38
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🌞 :
Lucia is literally a playable character too. She’s not just a romance option. And even if you’re not playing as her you literally have the option to friendzone her. At the end of the day if your boyfriend does choose the romance option that’s fine. (Like if mine does whatever I’d probably too honestly she’s fine as hell) It’s a whole different problem if he’s actively choosing a virtual girl over his over partner.. but like why be with a man that does that????
2026-09-01 19:12:02
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aimee_nomiddlename :
I don’t think it’s what you said it’s how you said it. You made the “silly girl voice” to play the woman and you said men should be aloud to play video games. Can strike a nerve in women who have to nag their boyfriends who are always on the game
2026-09-02 02:15:47
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amxracle :
YOU CLOCKING TEA!!!!!!!! NSSSSSSSSS I AGREE WITH YOU 100%
2026-09-01 17:14:14
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maria🖤 :
As a modded sims player this whole thing is so funny to me. Are these people also not allowed to watch tv shows with spicy scenes lol
2026-09-01 23:52:08
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tutu :
They’re mad cuz what you said hit a nerve
2026-09-01 17:56:32
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✨𝓐𝓵𝔂𝓼𝓼𝓪 ✨ :
I fear we need to look up what "boundaries" and "policing" means because these girlies are lost...
2026-09-01 19:48:39
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Jenna 💞 :
My husband and I watch anime. I don’t enjoy watching anime that has absurd amount of fan service - neither does he but depending on the nature he’ll still watch. A BOUNDARY is “I’m not going to watch this anime with you” a RULE is “YOU cannot watch this anime”. Zero chance am I losing my man to a fictional character. Some of y’all are doing too much.
2026-09-01 18:59:16
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Gothiccfam :
like i said its kinda giving the energy that a women cant have boundaries in her relationship which is def wrong, its their relationship and if they want to put that boundaries how are you saying that they aren't allowed to do so is wild
2026-09-01 20:12:26
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Anitbelikov v :
I made one of the comments, I just don't think this is a real issue at all, I bet half those videos were people trolling for views. I love the way you do your makeup, I've been getting more creative now, in part because of you, but right now things existential for a lot of people. We are moving backwards, in the wrong direction as red pill spreads everywhere, the hatred for women is higher than ever, and everyone is going along like everything is just fine. It's driving me a little coo coo. Please continue on doing your videos, I'm sorry if my comment distressed you in any way.
2026-09-05 04:06:08
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🔪𝕾𝖚𝖒𝖒𝖊𝖗𝕵𝖆𝖘𝖒𝖎𝖓𝖊💕 :
Boundaries aren’t control. Thats not how relationships work. You can not like the game but you can’t stop someone from playing
2026-09-01 17:06:33
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Morg :
personally these two videos really showed me how mature you are in your ideals and mindsets. you’re 100% correct fr
2026-09-07 02:38:45
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PandaSamm :
If you have to set a “boundary” on someone then it’s not a boundary. It’s a control issue.
2026-09-01 17:02:42
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*:・゚✧*:・゚✧ :
omg!!! YES “if thats your boundary find someone who fits that” I CANNOT AGREE MOREEEE OMG! like if thats a hard pass for you pleaseeee just find someone who IS that for you dont force someone to be a person theyre not or try to control them to be who YOU want them to be😭 find them dont make them like hdkajdjs hardly anyone agrees w me on this and it genuinely scares me
2026-09-01 16:57:43
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Erika :
people need to learn boundaries versus control. a boundary is me telling my ex i'm uncomfortable with him hanging out with HIS ex and her family (prior to us dating. Dont know why i pursued it still) Control is me telling him he can't do that, while he doesnt owe me anything in a 'talking stage'. you can't tell people what to do in relationships, thats toxicity instead of setting boundaries
2026-09-01 19:31:12
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axe :
it’s such a clear difference if someone’s like “you can’t do this thing bc it makes me insecure” vs “hey this thing you do makes me uncomfortable, can we have a conversation about it to help me overcome my insecurity”. you said nothing wrong in your video lol
2026-09-02 13:49:53
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*•.¸♡ 𝐀𝕌𝔡Ⓡ𝓲 ♡¸.•* :
Girl this is why I can’t get myself to bring up topics sometimes bc everyone gets a hair up their ass.. I (a person with common sense) knew exactly what you were touching on, but sadly .. people get so damn defensive 😒🙄
2026-09-02 17:59:11
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Maliah ✨ :
i was literally about to comment it’d be the same with books we read. i just hate that they’re making it out to be we hate women or we’re pick me when it is true that they’re being controlling.
2026-09-01 20:53:22
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Dayja Blake :
boundaries are for yourself. what you’re willing and not willing to accept. the other person then decides if they want to respect said boundary.
2026-09-02 01:12:10
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IndieLynn :
a boundary is 100% valid, but there's definitley some self reflection that needs to be done if you're threatened by a video game AND maybe if that man makes you worry so much... he's not a great man to begin with lol
2026-09-01 20:55:48
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🌜lena Kyner :
Lowk thought all those gods were fake
2026-09-01 16:41:43
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