Why does "have fun and focus on yourself" always translate to "get trashed and hook up with people you don't love"
2026-09-02 01:08:56
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🕸️ :
“What if I don’t want that “ then don’t do that ???😭😭😭✌🏽like no one is forcing you that’s the Beauty of it. And everyone thinks of themselves even in relationships.
2026-09-02 03:28:38
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420 :
so, are you in a relationship?🙂🙂
2026-09-03 04:40:50
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Belly Eyelash :
You get censored for talking sense to young women, which is antithetical to the goals of the owners of this app
2026-09-02 07:38:37
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Laura 💛 :
Well said!!
2026-09-02 00:18:14
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Veratok :
Vote 💙💙💙💙all the way down!
2026-09-02 03:12:02
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user906226205133 :
If your 20s and 30s were your best years, dont you want to spend that with someone who you love?
2026-09-02 00:35:22
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Gary :
Living selfishly in your 20’s will turn you into a monster by 30
2026-09-02 06:02:40
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Hg :
As an old lady now, 56, when I say focus on yourself or I wish I had done this that or the other, it is to say, become authentically you, focus on your own self-confidence. Build yourself up so that you are not looking for validation or justification in outside influences or people or partner. You can’t fill from an empty glass. Your 20s are the best time to do this. Much better BEFORE a spouse and kids because that is when the self-giving is at its zenith. If there is nothing there to give, nothing authentic, you will find yourself at 39 asking ‘now what?’
2026-09-02 01:09:43
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nursechadisback :
We had kids young. We wouldn't do it any other way.
2026-09-02 15:39:39
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Tik Toker :
Are you in a relationship?
2026-09-02 02:27:14
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Ⓜ️ manhattan musings Ⓜ️ :
Thank you for calling out the values of partnership. If you want relationship skills in your 30s, it’s helpful to have a few under your belt first.
2026-09-02 08:09:01
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user3172674353582 :
You're absolutely right, I'm 33. I got sick when I was 13 so I never got to go out on a date cuz I was in the hospital a lot but the only thing I always wanted was some until I'm 33 now still single cuz of my health. my life is over basically without even finding love. I know what you mean the joy to find someone so I ever wanted
2026-09-02 13:27:29
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Butcher :
It’s actually kind of toxic
2026-09-02 02:33:39
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Xander :
It's a shame more women aren't like you. The other women are the reason why I'm single.
2026-09-02 19:47:25
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paul_dreamalive :
Women will only be selfish in their 20's????
2026-09-02 01:03:23
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Brendan 💫 :
Single women keep women single.
2026-09-03 20:45:40
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