@christie.heals: If you want your life force back, you must find people who care when they hurt your feelings. LOVE is how to properly repair: 👇 1. Listen (without interrupting) 2. Own it (specifically) 3. Vow (to do better) 4. Evolve (the behavior stops) Without repair, there is no relationship. I LOVE you (😘), I would never deny your reality. You deserve healthy relationships, believe it. 🖤 #HealingJourney #relationshipadvice #toxicrelationship #divorce #GlowUp

Allison 🐬🐚 :

I don't know what to do with the anger thooo

Guy-Harald :

Great explanation. Love it. Sincerely from Germany

Skittlessica :

You cant control other people. You can only control how you react.

Meggie O. :

I’d like that next video. I had to cut both of my parents off because of this very issue. They’ve NEVER had any accountability for what they did to me and what they allowed others to do to me. And then they started treating my kids the same way after years of being good to them. That was the final straw. I could put up with them treating me poorly but not my kids. And that helped me realize how bad they’d been to me. It’s been a rough few years, lost all of my friends because they were like my parents. Breaking this generational trauma has been HARD. But these videos help so, so much.

EXIT Naddy :

what if you just avoid them and the issue instead? that works better right?

LittleSimonBoo :

very very VERY SMART 💐

The Best of the 80’s :

Does repair hurting you soo bad that they wrote a letter to you apologizing rather than come over and talk to you?

Noemi P. :

I sent it to my muther and siblings.Cheistie you have helped me in many ways thank you so much

Shannon D :

I would love to know why!! I’m down to 3 beautiful friendships and I could not be happier in my peace ❤️

kokorochronicles :

Would love that next video x

gina.crivas :

I love you

dr.outlander :

They just attack you instead of listening in my family. No contact— the only way to survive… In my path of healing my inner child I wrote a song about my talk to my younger self… i feel much more released

ᨰׁׅꪱׁׅᥣׁׅ֪ժׁׅ݊ :

You dont need anything from other people. not everyone can change.

Kar❌ :

Thank you for this post, it was really helpful to me.

Lynn :

I hear this yet I can’t help but question, does this actually exist? I’ve never experienced this from someone. I’ve certainly offered this created this space for someone else.

Jaime :

Omg I finally figured out who you remind me of and it’s from Workin Moms

TuppyTupps :

I am so thrilled to have found your channel. Thank you for sharing your story with the world, and please keep sharing!!! I want the next video! 🥰

Masha :

Yes

HealwithTania :

ReleasebyVR |Trauma Healing :

I’ve realised people with emotional intelligence doesn’t require much explanation when you bring up something. They’re quick to respond, apologise, lean in to repair and move forward. The ones with no EQ are soul draining because it does feel like trying to explain yourself to a toddler.

Brian Franco :

This isn’t easy

Matthew Morse :

This hit home today with Mom. She tried to drag and poke me about something that’s none of her business and not on the table for discussions. It was about my childhood bike I still keep. She wanted to know why I keep it and not give it to my narcissistic brothers kids. Um, that’s exactly why! She’s triangulating me b/c my brother is working her to get to me. She would not accept my “no” as a full answer and kept pushing, then I broke and got mad! I thought of your voice on my shoulder and asked her to please stop, and she just said, “it’s only a bike what’s the big deal?” Her condescending DARVO on me just lost my patience for this crap and now she’s not showing with me or even giving a simple apology. No accountability is exactly where your next video should go!

Christal Lynn :

Thanks to my ex and teaching my 8 year old responsibilities, ive been saying for over a year now "sorry comes with changed behaviors"

Joey Larsen :

Solid advice right there

Susan :

Do all things with LOVE 💕