@coach.ryan0: The closer you get, the colder they become. Not because you stopped being valuable… but because you became valuable enough to trigger everything they refuse to heal. But don’t romanticize it: being treated like garbage is not proof that you mattered. Their wounds may explain the cruelty. They do not give them permission to destroy you. 🧊 #AvoidantAttachment #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ToxicRelationships #RelationshipTok

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11.luca.11
Luca ♏️🇷🇴🇺🇸 :
He must of loved the hell out of me 🙄
2026-09-01 21:10:51
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vodavodica
ella :
he traumatized me so much, I can't stop thinking about him,and I can't think of being with anyone else.
2026-09-01 18:27:45
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sallyc56
sallyc56 :
OMGOODNESS. So tired. Will not let me get close. I know he loves me in his capable way.
2026-09-05 20:21:25
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s.ss20243
🌸Sara🌼 :
In a long-term online relationship with a fearful avoidant, is it normal for him to refuse or evade meeting in person?
2026-09-01 18:24:03
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wen24810
Wen :
Yep. Says im the drama. That drama is his and only counselling will save him
2026-09-05 11:13:22
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mthompson_4
Nana121 :
This is so backwards...
2026-09-02 06:00:36
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just_shonta
Shonta :
Never thought anything was wrong with me. I knew it was all him!!
2026-09-02 00:34:30
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rockhill_ranch
rockhill_ranch :
That is so freaking sad!
2026-09-02 00:10:54
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chasinglights1
frasny V :
Wow he really did love me 😂
2026-09-01 23:22:28
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infinityangel22
Infinity Angel 😇 :
I let him go to heal 😇 fyp
2026-09-02 08:23:52
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smokelotus609
1155 :
If they want to change, how can they actually do that?
2026-09-01 19:44:14
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jreneewrites
J. Renee Writes :
Well, I must have meant a metric ton then 🤣
2026-09-01 21:29:44
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nopeqm
Nopeqm 🇨🇦 :
He completely broke my heart…. He said he doesn’t have a spark and can’t say the L word to me…. But yet just had talked about wanting me to meet his kids and talking about future plans…. Was I delusional?! I feel like I’ve lost my mind
2026-09-02 11:53:27
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coffee1964
AndrewA :
It’s been a painful healing journey. Feeling a bit nostalgic right now. Her 50th birthday is coming. I would have planned something special for us to celebrate. 10 months no contact. Trying to heal my heart.
2026-09-01 23:36:16
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cyrel560
Cyrel Larson :
This is do crazy and very difficult to understand. Total mind fuck for sure.
2026-09-02 02:12:35
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cica.244
cica.24 :
He’s blocked me 🤣
2026-09-02 16:07:04
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duckone00
duckone00 :
This satisfies me.
2026-09-01 20:14:45
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danielle.vieira96
daniv0721 :
Then I must have mattered a lot! 😌
2026-09-02 00:07:47
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chiniscdmx
ChinisCDMX :
Can someone be an avoidant even if their childhood wasn’t that bad?
2026-09-01 22:19:00
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jessikatt1
😸JessCO💞 :
But WHY????
2026-09-01 21:40:19
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grateful2mysavior
👑🦁In His Image🐑👑 :
Please clarify: WHY do they discard the one they truly loved?! 😫🤷🏻‍♀️The one whom mattered? 😭 Is it because they’d rather discard us, than be discarded by us? 🤔
2026-09-02 13:31:05
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babydoll_bre
Breana Renee :
they get so mean 🤧
2026-09-02 15:27:43
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astarrisborn74
⭐️💎STARR💎⭐️74❌ :
That’s so messed up but hey at least I’m the high stakes person.
2026-09-02 07:52:20
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i.am.a.giraffe
Maddie Clark :
But the thing is, is if they keep treating the high stakes as garbage they’re eventually gonna leave. But I guess that justifies that for them
2026-09-02 14:41:18
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