Yes, it’s always offloading, shame, self hate, or exercising control to offset their lack of emotional regulation
2026-09-01 22:59:43
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𝕷𝖚𝖈𝖗𝖊𝖙𝖎𝖆 𝕸𝖈𝕰𝖛𝖎𝖑 :
My abuser actually said this too: “you must like it, you stay”. 6 years gone! 💖
2026-09-01 21:15:55
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PerhapsNot. 🌸🛍️🎀💗 :
They enjoy power and control.
2026-09-02 13:27:37
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nikkzimm :
they get a dopamine hit from controlling and abusing
2026-09-02 00:38:01
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Chameleon 🇦🇺 :
That’s what they get upset when you leave because you are how they sooth themselves
2026-09-04 22:17:57
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carryseriesfearfullfun :
it also gets worse when you don't give in
2026-09-02 13:36:25
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Chelley :
when the victims leave, the abusive people find another victim. So sad!
2026-09-05 02:22:32
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🎀Ms. Imani :
You are totally right !
2026-09-05 17:43:20
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sebsssss23 :
This is why I always say: At the first sign of contempt/disrespect: GET OUT
2026-09-01 23:33:01
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ggKpop :
Some abusive people are doing it through punishment. Some abusive people enjoy seeing you hurt or reacting in pain. It's not always about self-regulation.
2026-09-02 09:53:34
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The_💙 :
💯💯💯💯And that’s why the more you take the more they never let you go! That’s why you have to leave early before they get addicted to abusing you
2026-09-04 23:18:32
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JulesImablexican :
And they are hurt people who hurt people
2026-09-04 15:22:23
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MindJesusNotMe :
abusers have demons on them and those demons see you not standing on the Authority Jesus went to The Cross to give us.
2026-09-04 21:54:11
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Anehta :
I Think someone is copying your content because I just saw another creator post the exact same video
2026-09-03 10:04:33
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FaceOfGrace :
my abuser said- if you don't like it you can leave..... I did
2026-09-02 22:28:33
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aluminumpeanuts :
someone please explain the self regulating
2026-09-02 04:39:54
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Cecily Jamelia 👀 :
My mom would say that my dad always needed someone to be mean to so that he could be nice to others. Honestly she was really talking about herself, and very common in Narcissists
2026-09-02 06:55:51
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_miss_steeze_ :
So then why don’t they end up abusing the people they’ve been trying to impress?
2026-09-03 06:16:20
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Lum.lumee :
"thats how they self-regulate" THAT IS WILDDD. but it kind of makes sense. wow. smh.
2026-09-02 14:34:08
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ret :
Babies and kids are trapped
2026-09-02 00:51:32
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raine guevara :
if they abusing you leave them right that moment . do not doubt yourself ..
2026-09-03 00:38:47
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✨8WEEZY✨ :
Basically power trip off making people feel small. Basically a projection of who they are internally…. Small.
2026-09-03 05:29:04
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zoe :
I generally grey rock and ignore them but every once in awhile I snap and I yell back but then they get what they want, proof I am the bad person and proof they are the victim and they just use it against me
2026-09-02 02:46:23
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SpicySpoons :
That is why they trap people; they force compliance
2026-09-02 02:02:05
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