Cheesewontons :
My ex ruined my life, career, side hustles, hobbies, friends bc he was insecure about my achievements & me being the “celebrity” in the relationship. He wanted my life, personality & shine. He didn’t want me around men more successful than him, he wanted to be the one in those rooms I worked hard for. He wanted me to be ashamed
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for yrs I helped him and his family with their business.
They were about to close down, I urged them to use social media. I saved their business being their videographer, editor, social media manager, content planner and her personal assistant.
💔 his mom was obsessed with us & knowing everything abt me
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Then, I found a group chat, his mom saying very awful things about my race, color, features… all bc I wouldn’t lay down and let her son control me, threaten me, and manipulate me anymore. And she KNEW he was doing things like this to me. *They were enmeshed* So they triangulated me over it & my color was her justification to save her son’s image
(that blk women aren’t submissive & deserve treatment such as this)
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when they couldn’t come for my character, they came for my color.
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And he helped them. He tried to delete it and hide it so I would continue helping them while they use me (very calculated). He tried playing both sides like it was all just a misunderstanding. His complacency, rac!sm enabling, ab^se financially/emotionally, & greed ruined our relationship. And he STILL wouldn’t leave after all that. So I kicked him out, he got to leave feeling like a victim. & knowing he knocked me down far enough to feel superior, bc he had full control over my money, food, cars, everything. they used everything against me to scare me into silence.
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He’s been surrounded by ppl who enabled him and believed his lies ever since.
2026-09-16 01:05:52