@growwithkaela: Physical intimacy for a dismissive avoidant isn’t the same as it is for you. You were bonding. They were regulating. Same bed, two completely different experiences. That’s why nothing you did in that area was ever going to fix what was missing everywhere else.
Enough sex--but when I asked to make love-he acted like I asked him to rob a bank---and didn't have a CLUE wat I meant... it was SOO HURTFUL..and then became shameful..and sooo confusing!😳
2026-11-04 21:34:53
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Nicole Fitcoach :
Mine only wants sex on the weekends or if it’s in the morning. All on HIS terms. His desire. When it’s convenient for HIM. We go days on end and when I bring it up, he tells me my testosterone levels are too high and he can’t help he doesn’t want sex everyday. Meanwhile, it’s been 5 days and he’s barely touched me and I feel rejected and undesired
2026-09-02 19:22:40
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Andre 🇺🇸🇵🇹 :
“It’s broken” that’s what I heard towards the end
2026-09-01 20:06:42
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vshc17 :
These people seem very sick to me based on what you have been saying. Stay clear
2026-09-01 23:16:28
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Dawn :
It definitely only continues to get worse until there’s nothing at all. The sad thing is, they’re perfectly fine with that leaving their partners, confused hurt and feeling unloved. This video is very spot on. It makes me sad that I didn’t identify all this sooner, but it all truly didn’t fall apart until after we were married
2026-09-02 13:11:21
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user6317221743819 :
harder to get over because the sex was really good 😒 def a non-zero factor in why I stayed longer. its been almost a decade since it was that consistently good x.x
2026-09-02 09:21:15
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Sandra Tinajero :
If I wanted it he would hold back orgasm and would tell me he was not in the mood had to be on his terms. Worst
2026-09-27 02:15:58
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Kay Bunselmeyer :
yep. first month sex was constant. then he claimed it was messing with him and we quit. now 6 months in I get nothing.
2026-09-02 17:00:00
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racemom.27 :
Mine never wanted sex with me but after 3 years found out he was sleeping with anyone and everyone. When I confronted him he said it’s different with me because there’s feelings and the others didn’t mean anything 🤦🏼♀️
2026-09-04 05:33:10
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____gh_28 :
As soon as we moved in together, she would reject every single advance I made on her. Years later she complained I felt I stopped making the effort and I asked her how she thinks it feels to be rejected every single time i initiate with my girlfriend after two years and she just didn’t get it. It was still my fault.
2026-09-15 20:33:24
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Amy :
This is my current marriage. We had great s$x and the last several years it’s like he wasn’t there when we did, he’d stare at the ceiling. Now he hasn’t touched me in 7.5 months. Prior to that since November I was lucky to get it one or two times from November to February. It’s so frustrating and I feel alone and unwanted and unattractive to him.
2026-09-02 12:15:38
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Bonnie 🦋 :
Yes he would freeze. It was so odd.
2026-09-02 21:37:43
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Michelle Santolin :
So very true. Nothing, never ever for years,years and years.
2026-09-10 06:46:45
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brunetteandherbulldog :
What if a DA tells you that their former relationship would have ended sooner if it wasn’t for the sex? Then keeps saying that they don’t want a relationship based on sex. I mean I don’t know many people that are looking for only that in a relationship. But it seems like a way to limit closeness and also devalue your partner saying it was based only on sex.
2026-09-02 17:40:46
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Lilac Hazel :
I’m the DA 🥶
2026-09-08 09:10:58
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Sam :
100% mine I walked 17 weeks ago still struggling with the whys
2026-10-12 06:24:20
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AllUNeed114 :
anytime anywhere but I belive the ghosting was a way to avoid intimacy at times. but when we were together it was not a problem at all. that's about all I got smh
2026-09-01 21:10:32
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Paulette Kennedy :
This is spot-on
2026-09-02 03:36:53
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Carrie :
.... yes this!!!
2026-09-12 03:28:55
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sluthunter5 :
Yes if it wasn’t consistent, I was out the door. That’s what I was told in the first day.
2026-09-05 01:31:36
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gray-c :
he is the snake eating his own tail
2026-09-05 10:25:13
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Ana Grace :
So true
2026-09-05 13:47:24
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FruitFliesLikeAnAirplane :
Twice a year for 5 minutes, with the lights off. It was terrible.
2026-10-21 18:39:59
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thelmaa.aura :
They’re cowards
2026-09-08 07:59:48
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Lisa Seibert Anderso :
I'm glad you brought up the porn subject. He told me he watched it daily and masturbated. It was a 7 month long distance relationship. We only saw each other on the weekends. This was the most confusing relationship I had ever been in and I've been in some doozies!
2026-09-02 11:39:00
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