@bigsisadvice13: #selflove #boundaries #empath #discarded #narcissist

PINKY :

just had a crying session then remembered i deserve empathy TOO. and i never got it from him.

melly ☆ :

i literally lost my mind trying to understand him

Melody 🔻 :

I realized that I’ve been conditioning myself since forever to put my comfort at the very end. It’s led to an adulthood of being used because of my empathy and letting my comfort be smothered.

alo :

Literally talked about this with my therapist yesterday. I’ve forgiven him cheating before but this time I can’t. I sacrificed my entire being to feel accepted and loved by him. That’s not fair to me at all. Idc if he says he misses me again, I’m never going back.

emily :

I already know this but it’s still hard sometimes

adri :

☹️I hope when he's feeling suicidal, he has someone to talk to, since we went no contact. but what he did to me, i did not deserve💔

Olivia Welch :

I almost lost my mind trying to explain myself constantly to him. I would cry and try to talk about things, and it always ended up being turned around on me. 💔 I truly started to believe I was the problem.

Monica :

I’m learning this the hard way. I had to be strong enough to leave but I still feel bad he’s struggling without me.

October ♏️✨🐦‍🔥 :

Unfortunately we learn the hard way sometimes 💔 to the younger generation pay attention to how that person makes you feel and how they respond to your emotions. They show you who they are with their actions. Leave and leave early don’t let them keep using and hurting you. this is also a sign of self love.

Brooke :

I left the person I wanted to marry this year. It was in January. I finally chose myself after three years, and it was the hardest things I had to do, but the relief after months of no contact I don’t have anxiety attacks anymore.

Jaden Johnson :

Gosh I needed to hear this

Lilibeth Barrera :

😩They have no empathy for me I’m dying broooo

carlagonzalez0979 :

She broke up with me because I have not dealt with a lot of my ptsd and trauma and keep having triggered based bad behaviors. How do I support her? Were suppose to have a conversation in a few weeks, how do I help her? I feel like this applies to her

Elena :

You’re so right!!!

Jen Stephanie 90 :

I needed to hear this

Jazzy ✨ :

🫠🫠

PINKY :

sometimes the empathy helps the feeling of “was it even real?” yes it was. but your self love should be real too.

Alyssa ♡ Jewelry Artist :

Tima :

this is real. I’m glad I heard this

Mykael Kayla :

From the bottom of my heart. Thank you.

sammy ✞ :

this.

Jaxthepittymixmama :

That’s right

Ainslee Rangel :

What about platonic context

User7788998663 :

His alcohol problem has gotten so bad. I told him that him not communicating with me for days at a time bothers me. He continues to do it. All I’ve done is cry for days and days. Still no word from him. I love his son. My heart is so broken.