@breakupbrad: Your avoidant ex only comes back when their fear of losing you beats their fear of getting hurt. You have to trigger this by going totally no contact, living for yourself again, and finally taking them off that pedestal. Once you genuinely stop waiting around, everything changes. #avoidantex #expsychology #nocontactrule #relationshiptips
Stop giving people hope. Avoidants are abusers and anyone with a good heart should stay faaar away from them.
2026-09-02 13:40:28
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Sara :
There’s no shift and there’s no coming back .. I’ve been 7 months no contact
2026-09-02 11:03:45
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Goya Niño :
Why does he want to come back after you told them stay away leave me alone
2026-09-03 05:32:41
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daydreamer11jr :
I never put him on a pedestal and I always had me in sight as much as I could. He tried to put me in a situation where he tried to emotionally control the relationship is when I expressed I didn’t want to go that route and walked away. He confessed he was the reason the relationship failed and that I deserved someone better. I told him, I need 100% plus therapy if he wants to make it work and left it like that 😌 he hasn’t reached out but I’m focused on me, school, working out, and all the fun plans coming up soon.
2026-09-02 17:32:29
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rdjbot579 :
Yeah, but do they really come back because my ex-boyfriend is ignoring me and he’s avoidant.
2026-09-03 14:37:38
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Corey 🇨🇦 :
Hah, yeah she’s not on a pedestal anymore, she only gets that kind of treatment when she’s treating me with respect, and that stopped a while ago. It’s just been 12 months of breadcrumbs every now and then. I’m actually enjoying no contact. I’m just not interested in the breadcrumbs anymore, I reached my limit of what I can tolerate
2026-09-01 22:02:21
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Taine.L :
kids = contact bro
2026-09-01 21:09:45
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ZoSo 💪 🔔 :
Probably more like one time out of ten.
2026-09-02 22:27:01
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Lisa J ✨🖤 :
Always does. Still nothing changes
2026-09-02 22:50:29
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Ezi :
yeah, i no longer put him on a pedestal.
2026-09-02 04:11:19
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natty j :
well said at that point u dont want them back
2026-09-02 02:33:13
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Glen Lotz :
dnt want them back
2026-09-03 17:18:07
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G𝓖𝓸nz :
Not true.. better to move and go back to yourself! and leave them alone because they find new already🙄
2026-09-06 13:19:35
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Elvira :
El es su mayor enemigo
2026-09-02 19:12:52
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racemom.27 :
Yep he’s been calling, texting multiple times a day. I’m still not answering or replying. Healing and don’t want to go back to that dynamic again
2026-09-02 06:39:26
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Rith :
what if u spammed them with literally millions of texts messages and slapped him 😂
2026-09-02 19:11:29
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bestdealsdaily26 :
F’n forget em’ ….
2026-09-02 22:43:50
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Wild Leo ♌️ :
😂😂😂😂
2026-09-16 02:21:35
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