@drewwdaniels: A lot of men tend to be avoidant and are not living in softer emotions. They are living in the topsoil of frustration. Frustration WANTS to be met with respect and sincerity. It does not feel like being coddled. In fact, men will reject this type of soothing because it doesn’t feel relatable. It makes them feel more alien. More alone. More out of place. The more we can respect frustration - the more we can meet the softness underneath. #relationshipproblems #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment