@melissa.m.schlemmer: Every single second. #childloss #bereavedmother #childlossgrief #griefandjoy

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mendyhawkinspierce
mendyhawkinspierce :
Absolutely. My son was worth the oceans of tears I've cried since he passed. Our hearts are devasted that he's gone but oh those moments he was ours.. we were lucky enough to get 23 years with his beautiful light. God knows we wanted more but we know we were so very blessed that he was ours.
2026-10-14 10:08:49
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nictoshadawnjenner
To$ha 🌛🌞🙏 :
my son passed at 14 from asthma. my life forever changed that day... I miss him so much
2026-10-14 11:40:25
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painhealingtruth
painhealingtruth :
I wondered this as well. Lost my son 2 years ago to suicide. Kai fe23
2026-09-17 07:35:15
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sarahkc82
Sarah :
I felt this. I’m so grateful for my spiritual side because it helps me I have really hard days. I know in this lifetime this life wasn’t big enough for him. As hard as that is I know now his soul contract was short and I signed up for this as well. I have moments where I do say that why would someone sign up for this unbearable pain, but I know he is teaching me so much from the other side. It’s beautiful but heart breaking at the same time. My son passed this July 8th, unexpectedly and tragically, he was only 17 and my only child. I miss him terribly.
2026-09-02 23:19:30
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tiffydixxy
TiffDixon_BransonsLegacy🕊 :
17 years with my boy wasn't enough time... I'm not sure how I ever chose this life... but I do know, no matter the pain I am in and the immense heartbreak I will always feel not having him here... I would still choose him every, single, time 🤍 prayers to you momma 🙏
2026-09-02 15:28:03
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coachhwife
CoachHwife :
I got 19 years 💔 My son was humble, kind, so funny, and incredibly handsome. Star basketball player…*He was my first true love. I would do it all over again. No question
2026-10-03 00:47:04
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melissamills792
Melissa Mills :
I ask this every single day 11days before her 10th birthday was not enough I need my daughter. today has been 5mnths since I lost my baby girl
2026-09-15 12:40:51
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amrak2932
Ryan’s Sky :
11 years wasn’t enough. And 35 years wasn’t enough. Because when it’s your child, there is never a number that could possibly feel like enough. We were supposed to grow old watching them live their lives—not learn how to live in a world without them. It is a cruelty I will never understand, and no mother should ever have to know the pain of burying her child. 💝
2026-09-02 11:53:31
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macleod.amy
Caellums mom 🪽💙 :
😭💔 I agree mama. I just lost my 12 year-old boy seven weeks ago.
2026-09-11 23:13:21
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hahollaback
heather :
11 years...thats all I got too...and as im on this journey too if what do I believe anymore because I dont understand...snd just today I came across this concept...and got soooo angry...and then..I hop on here to doom scroll...and you are on my fyp....and its another way of seeing it besides anger. you will never know how grateful I am to see this...from one grieving mama to another...thank you. 🫂
2026-09-03 00:37:21
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cindy.mcintosh0
Cindy A Smith :
I feel you I feel the same way I lost my first son 2020 my second son 23 and I lost my husband 24. Who the hell in the right mind would sign up for that
2026-09-25 13:37:30
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bethany_heniser
Bethany_Heniser :
I say the same thing all the time. There’s no way any of us would sign up for this life. No way. UNLESS, exactly as you said, it meant we didn’t have them at all. I got 19 years 💔
2026-09-25 03:08:01
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dee.wilder2
Dee Wilder :
I don't believe that. no mom would want that
2026-09-10 22:44:35
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wendi3727
Wendi :
I had a month shy of 2 years with my daughter. I would do it all over again for that beautiful smile, she did teach me so much, she did change me, and she forever left her mark on this world. She saved a little girl with her liver, she was and still is so very special. Prayers mama, this road is not easy.
2026-09-26 16:36:11
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celinasymm
Celina Symmonds🇨🇦 :
I love this thank you. I will take the years I got too
2026-09-02 03:53:00
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msalex_b
Ms.Alex :
I believe… due to the fact that child loss is so hard for anyone to understand, that our soul needed this experience of this immense pain. This intense love and loss for our own compassionate soul growth per se, to further develop the knowledge our soul acquires. No one in their “right mind” would sign up for this cruel pain…. However they also say we choose our parents. In a realm that is unfamiliar to our human understanding. And heck what was I thinking choosing my parents!!! Again…here we go Mama; He chose YOU!!! I miss my son soooo much.
2026-09-02 00:23:02
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timetowakeup81
Heart Warrior ❤️💙loss mom :
Who would sign up for that life? I’ve signed up for it and I believe this soul contracts when my son had a heart attack February 2025 he saved my life
2026-09-02 04:39:30
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msalex_b
Ms.Alex :
Add; I couldn’t hear all you were saying due to the music… but I felt it
2026-09-02 00:26:14
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mediumcatherinelrichmond
Catherine L. Richmond Medium ✅ :
A child that leaves earth is a new soul.You can have a life experience in alot of universes. You are the chosen soul to let the new soul feel the vibrations of this earth to acclimatise for its next incarnation. We are not seperate souls we are part of the one over soul that you refer to as God.There is no death we just change how we communicate with them try to sense their guidance look for signs meditate pray study the afterlife so much love for you
2026-09-19 20:32:21
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kim_justicefordustynpf23
kim🩷 :
💔 I feel this
2026-09-02 00:01:33
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sheilagalovich
sheilagalovich :
I’ve lost 2 sons, I would never choose that
2026-09-16 14:26:51
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annagendreau
Anna Gendreau :
I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish we had unlimited years with our precious babies💜🪽
2026-09-01 20:53:02
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amyrin68
🧠🩶 Ringo 🩶🧠🌱🌱 :
yeah, who would sign up for your child coming into this world like lightning or electricity 6 1/2 weeks early 4 pounds to be in this life than being misdiagnosed from the age of 11 until the age of 19 when something happens the changes you’re a whole entire world just eight months out of high school. I’m grateful that my son is still here even in all this hard and even in my sadness for grieving certain things because everything is so unsure because this kind of stuff is like waiting for something to just go off in your head on top of dealing with seizures. Just remember I’m always here if you need somebody to talk to or even yell at.
2026-09-02 22:34:40
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larjo67
larjo67 :
32 years was never long enough
2026-09-02 23:37:06
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ashleymroy
BeautifullyBroken :
I’m feeling this so much. Thank you.
2026-09-15 21:57:53
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