@kelleydaring: Replying to @Old Lady #marriagelife #marriedcouple #wifelife #marriedlife #attachmentstyle

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old_lady_in_wv
Old Lady :
Thank you for answering. I understand.
2026-09-05 23:16:49
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babybearbuddies
Baby Bear 🧸 :
You have done more for me with this series than you will ever know. I’ve integrated these concepts into our couples counseling and my weekly EMDR trauma therapy. I am 47 and finally feeling emotionally safe in my own environment. I’m done over functioning and questing for acceptance. I’m still showing up and loving but doing it a way that doesn’t self abandon.
2026-09-02 19:02:08
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scarlettroseofficial
𝕾𝖈𝖆𝖗𝖑𝖊𝖙𝖙 𝕽𝖔𝖘𝖊 :
I thought you were in your late 30s 😳
2026-09-01 23:55:43
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amandalock00
Amanda Swanson Lock :
I just watched this whole series in one evening. So impactful. Need to process it but thank you for posting.
2026-09-04 04:37:34
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goodgirldeconstructed
Good Girl Deconstructed :
Whew! Unconditional self safety is vital. The way in which you share your experiences and learning is truly so meaningful. This is the wisdom to start inner revolution! 💜
2026-09-02 00:05:33
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liminal.scribe
liminal scribe :
I feel like you just handed me a puzzle piece I've been missing for years. I dont think Ive ever felt emotionally safe externally or really internally. Years of undiagnosed neurodivergence takes a huge toll on one's ability to trust themselves too
2026-09-02 02:02:01
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kelsophia.97
Kelly S :
I would love to know more about providing safety to yourself. can you explain exactly what that looks like and how you got there? it feels like this really vague abstract concept that I desperately need but feel pretty clueless on how to actually end up there. thank you so much for posting this, your vulnerability is a gift to others out there struggling to break away from the programming like me.
2026-09-02 13:52:09
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lionyy55
xxoo :
You look incredibly beautiful and chic!!! wanna look like you when im 45
2026-09-02 12:08:37
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wondercel0102
Wondercel :
This was me too. Meeting my parents needs and self abandonment in the face of abuse & neglect caused me to repeat the cycle with my husband. Ex- husband. Now I give myself safety.
2026-09-02 19:27:07
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kel50000
😬😡🤢 :
I am working on this same thing and I’m over 60. I’m finally feeling safe. This content is priceless. Please write that book!
2026-09-02 22:24:15
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formallyuser2023
FormallyUser2023 :
Powerful content. Thank you.
2026-09-02 01:48:05
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katiewelborn28
katie welborn :
Would love to hear more about the steps you took to get there.
2026-09-02 10:27:16
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jamilathetherapist
JamilaTheTherapist :
such valuable information. thanks for sharing
2026-09-02 13:14:15
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mrswilson_05
Demoure82 :
Your videos keep hitting home. I thought you were looking into my life with your video about how you used to brace yourself for your husband's discomfort in certain situations but this video right here just unpacked something I didn't realize was a part of the problem. I've already started to decenter him and center myself, now I just need to know how to make myself feel safe.
2026-09-04 03:17:03
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lara.cc2
Lara Cc :
Girl, I was sure you were 36
2026-09-02 13:17:55
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victoriansa
Victoria :
So insightful and brave
2026-09-02 05:35:23
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mamadm32lil
Madaganzie :
💡and there it is. Thank you for taking a risk and being vulnerable. This got me. This is me. I thought the same thing and was confused when my efforts weren’t returned. I am now at the beginning stages of working to love myself put myself first without guilt (That’s a tough thing to do). I hope I will find safety. I almost feel frantic and definitely insecure from feeling unstable from not receiving for so long. This is one of the hardest journeys. So grateful for you and your story.
2026-09-02 12:53:29
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fjordanred
fjordanred :
I'm going through this right now at the age of 54. I was emotionally neglected as a child, and have had therapy to address it. What I realise is that he never really appreciated how much work I was putting into the relationship. And I hadn't realised just how resentful I felt. He's actually much nicer to me now that I center myself. And our relationship is improving. But I feel safe whatever the outcome. I too wish this for all women.
2026-09-02 08:41:16
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windeelise
Windee🍃🐨 :
I was a child when I learned to neglect my needs and cut pieces off myself in order to be accepted. I learned to apologise for every hurt anybody else felt, regardless of if it was my fault, and to accept cruelty with no expectation of comfort. I'm still unlearning, but I no longer accept that somebody else should be the centre of my world.
2026-09-01 23:54:57
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shevaanisen
Shevaani | Life Academy :
Love this. Working on it myself. Can you also talk about your perimenopause journey (if comfortable) please - I am 45 as well
2026-09-02 02:31:00
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truevenicelove
Renee :
our patriarchal society makes women feel unsafe financially and emotionally. It makes women feel they need men to survive and be taken care of, even if that's not true.
2026-09-02 23:49:31
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cheyenne_woodart
Cheyenne | Wood Artist :
I feel this so deeply. I’ve never felt emotional safety. I’m starting to now. But my entire life I have not.
2026-09-02 03:15:29
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stefsssssssssssssssssss
Ssky13 :
Sorry you e probs addressed this elsewhere but are you still married?
2026-09-02 00:23:03
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eve00594
Eve :
Please, do a video how to find safety wihin oneself
2026-09-02 09:18:50
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taracita77
Tara :
I do not understand how to make myself feel safe though?
2026-09-03 10:47:50
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