@mackenzieherman: No contact is the first step, they have to take the 2nd one. #dismissiveavoidant #anxiousattachment #fearfulavoidantattachment #avoidantcycle #attachmentstyle
Okay but how do you go no contact when you share a toddler together lol
2026-09-07 01:11:44
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Panni Mészáros :
I don't want to hear "avoidant" ever again in my life
2026-09-01 21:04:08
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Loda :
6 month no contact. Crazy. I truely thought that he would come back explaining
2026-09-02 07:25:24
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DaRkBorne :
It’s BS and literally torture for the receiving person. To not be able to talk it out and heal.
2026-09-02 08:14:01
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Bargy’s Treasures :
It’s been over 2 months- will she break the silence?
2026-09-02 14:39:22
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user6317221743819 :
if you don't have your avoidant in a healthy way, no contact is the best option because you don't actually have them.
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no contact IS a gamble where both results are a win. if it works, maybe they come back ready to make changes. but what if it doesn't work? if it doesn't work you just proved it was never going to get better anyway, and the no contact can help you get over them.
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its a win win - you either get them back better, or you're taking a step to move on. if you stay, nothing changes.
2026-09-02 12:06:24
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Lynn Jarman :
no contact means their done ,no bullshit bare face truth
2026-09-02 10:30:15
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Teo :
82 days strong! I left
2026-09-04 12:48:08
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Kleinwood :
you give advice to people telling them no contact is the healthiest and best way to go. Now, you are saying that it isn't.
Stop flip-flopping!
2026-09-02 18:53:31
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Venomous Kill :
Hey Mack, 1 month ish into no contact and her leaving me and hopping she comes back and said no to being friends and blocked her when she was bread crumbing online, and I’m 90% sure she is a avoidant but how do I find out if she’s 100% an avoidant to make sure no contact is something I should stick with
2026-09-02 18:05:35
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Tony - M :
I’m heartbroken how do I fix this
2026-09-02 09:59:46
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Glen Lotz :
let them go im healing 1 month
2026-09-02 12:17:50
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djmanx210 :
I hate hearing about dopamine hits
2026-09-03 02:44:18
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Sniper :
What if they already jump into a new relationship after 3-6 months?.
2026-09-02 17:24:14
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bigsean62 :
18 months I fought to get her back even though she discard me .. then I finally I decided to draw the line and it's been 4 months of no contact..
2026-09-01 21:51:57
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Solomio :
They get new attention😂
2026-09-02 13:01:35
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Isabellababy :
he wanted me to chase and when I stopped, I got a text 1 month later calling me scum, we never texted again! it's been years
2026-09-02 08:54:16
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Venom🇧🇪🇹🇳🇮🇨 :
no contact for ever
2026-09-02 10:47:15
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Gabriel :
Make me listen to you 😂😆 😮😬😣 Thanks Mack!!! 🫶
2026-09-05 14:44:57
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naldyy :
What if he or she is already in a new relationship?
2026-09-02 10:52:34
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Fitness&R&B :
I wish but we have kids, so we still see each other almost everyday.
2026-09-02 10:19:04
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erythrium :
no contact îs a great time. time to raise , expand and do everything I want. she told me : do whatever you want! and now I fully do exactly and only that I fullfil her prophecy, and she doesn't even know it 😁🤣👍👍
2026-09-01 21:03:59
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Valerie :
♥️♥️♥️
2026-09-03 14:24:42
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