I’m scared I’m healing so hard that thought of any man around me makes me sick to my stomach…
2026-09-01 23:07:54
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patti.cakess :
Omg they start out as the most heroic, kind, loving and present partner you’ve ever known! Now I’m so wary of charm and generosity and too good to be true. We will never be the same.
2026-09-02 00:12:07
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drewski⛄️ :
The love bombing changed me forever
2026-09-02 02:20:03
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Masterofstormy🇨🇦 :
I see way to many Red Flags now to make a real connection..
2026-09-01 21:48:37
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d0nnaJ :
I hear this. I am 5 months post discard after 6 years, my sister has met someone online and e wry date has been perfect and 5 dates in they are exclusive and talking about how they will keep their houses and have certain nights at each others house. I’m the one in the family saying woah way too fast. My gut instinct has kicked in and I’m catching red flags. 🚩
2026-09-01 23:03:14
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Athena Peptides :
I asked mine how his confession went at church and the priest said "it sounds like you worship yourself."
2026-09-10 19:42:18
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Mucha :
Same it killed an innocence I had an opened my eyes to the facts that some ppl love and attention are transactional n not done with good motives
2026-09-02 19:42:40
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Jasmine Ferguson :
mine started out as the most amazing man ever and then turned into an absolute nightmare.
2026-09-02 19:03:01
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Jackie Kennedy :
This certainly resonates with me right now Abby. I sort have started seeing someone and my guard is up so high that I’m not trusting my own judgement anymore. Every nice gesture I’m questioning!!!! I really want to trust again because logically I know there are loyal empathic men out there but coming out of that kind of relationship, forever changes you.
2026-09-07 11:21:27
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amandamaxiel :
You are sharing this and my throat feels stuck.
2026-09-11 23:20:25
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user7925443497544 :
I’m still shocked at what can trigger me. I experienced the same level of love bombing. Eventually, I would be dropped off at the emergency room when I needed emergency surgery.
2026-09-02 15:48:50
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☀️🌴JUPLYF🌴☀️ :
All true, I’m skeptical of everyone and always questioning their motives/intentions. I’m living in a very guarded life and am changed forever because of my ex Narc.
2026-09-02 02:13:42
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Jecholia Koelling :
I relate. Thank you for telling these stories.
2026-09-03 02:58:52
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Vyoufinder :
I finally decided I'm done with her; satisfied, got closure. Done with that loser and no longer have desire for her.
2026-09-03 05:44:25
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Mark :
I’ve stayed single since the narcissist. I just feel not only trusting someone else, I can’t trust myself to choose a healthy partner. Sounds crazy! I was married for 24 years to a narcissist! That was enough! I guess I’m wounded.
2026-09-04 03:37:59
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Truth shall set you free :
Sad we have to be suspect of things that are said snd done
2026-09-02 02:29:26
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Nicole | Boundary Beginners :
Forever changed. Was always hopeful and looking for love. I don’t want to see a grown man that’s not related to me, ever again.
2026-09-02 09:43:10
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Goodvibes :
Thankyou
2026-09-06 01:45:20
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Gillie's Loveline Podcast :
You are correct. Only, i hate the fact i had to change who i am and how i love when i love to protect myself.
2026-09-02 18:33:09
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Natalie Hames :
I spot toxicity within minutes of talking to someone. I've learned to watch for patterns instead of one-off possibilities that could be chalked up to my hypervigilance. 3 strike rule
2026-09-02 10:42:11
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Meeegl :
I’m scared to move on or scared to open up again because I can’t handle another fall out or intense breakup and abuse. Also what if they show back up and I’m moved on and happy? Sounds dumb but scared of the reprocussions.
2026-09-02 19:30:13
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M :
I get what you’re saying. My Ex came to our first baby scan and the consultant said she couldn’t see the baby’s bladder and my ex was almost hysterical. When she finished she said because it peed. I said to my ex outside the door never again he was so chaotic. I know that if he did want to come I’d have let him bet like yours he never did. I did both babies on my own.
2026-09-02 18:06:53
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elle :
Yeah except I declined every time because I’m very independent, when I did need a ride major surgery he said absolutely, doubled down when confirming days before and he said oh I forgot, I have a dental appt which was total BS. That was the end.
2026-09-02 16:37:11
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Phenix❌️ :
Us lightworkers need this. It is OUR BIGGEST LEVEL UP. Keep going!💛🙏💛🥰
2026-09-02 12:07:15
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