@teresondupuy: They replaced you before you were even cold in the grave. Do you want to know why that can happen? Some people cannot tolerate the emptiness that comes after a relationship ends. They cannot sit with themselves. They cannot tolerate the silence. They cannot face the grief, shame, loneliness, or withdrawal from the emotional high of the relationship. So they reach for another person. Not necessarily because that new connection is deeper. Because it provides relief. Validation. Novelty. Attention. Dopamine. A new mirror that tells them, “See? I’m okay. I’m wanted. I’m not the problem.” That can look like love from the outside. But sometimes it is simply regulation through another human being. A rebound can function like a painkiller. It numbs what they do not yet know how to feel. That does not mean every person who moves on quickly is “addicted” or incapable of love. But if someone repeatedly jumps from relationship to relationship without reflection, accountability, or healing, the pattern itself is telling you something. Do not compare your healing to their distraction. You are doing something harder. You are sitting with yourself. You are feeling it. You are healing it. And that is how you actually break the cycle. If you’re ready to understand your own attachment patterns and stop repeating painful relationship dynamics, book a call with me through the link in my bio. #Heartbreak #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyle #HealingJourney #InnerWork

loricapobianco843 :

they needed a place to live

🖤 Laura 🖤 :

unreal. how badly I needed to hear this today. thankyou

momosama :

😂😂😂 thats what my ex did, she got together with a coworker.

tgif!0918 :

Because narcissists can’t be alone for a second!

Kerri Gen ❌ :

Being discarded has to be the worst pain ever especially when it’s the last thing u expect

Alex Fazekaš :

This was the most accurate explanation of what I experienced and discovered after the breakup.

Carl Bezuidenhout :

Exactly right. And I felt the emotional disconnect a few months before she discarded me for someone new despite denying it.

AJ :

One of the hardest thing to heal from

Kim Hester :

It’s so hard to get him out of my mind

lvndadrm66 :

Why? Because they were having the affair for more than 6 months

Eddie park :

hurts 😭wish God sees and revenges for us

Tracy :

Mine went back to the person who knows exactly how he is and is ok with it. I couldn’t take the abuse anymore.

Just Carla 🌻🍉🧿🕊🍀🇺🇲 :

💯 Thanks

yasmin :

4 hours 😐😐

li :

thx you

ruby :

Men replace. Women adjust.

Aijan :

Yes he found someone else while we were married

lexi :

Thank you so much

michaelflandro :

A lot of evil in their lives! No thanks!!!

Cynthia Woodson :

Angel

jimboe :

they forgot about me really quickly

Cammy :

He was having lunch with her while I was struggling as a school teacher. They both made plans together. She had the money. He had it all worked out. He didn’t leave me until he had a better proposition.

Kel :

absolutely that's what happened to me he was talking to her 6 months before I was out of the picture I was heartbroken to say the least x

mayacute12330 :

yes. yes. yes

Faith22778 :