Whitney Allen | Grief Coach 🖤
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Wednesday 02 September 2026 00:56:10 GMT
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dave :
it's been 16 months since my wife passed, & like you I have to sleep on her side of the bed. unfortunately I still haven't dreamt of Hayley no matter how much I want to. I talk to her daily, I kiss her picture when I wake & when I go to bed, we had been together 43 years when she passed & about 5 months ago I smelt her perfume (it's an unmissable scent, that I always loved on her), so I know she's always around me....
2026-09-02 12:35:02
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Bee Rock :
I just passed 27 hours since my wife passed. 😢
2026-09-03 01:13:14
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BabaYaga :
My late husband and I lived in a very gently haunted house. small things here and there, nothing scary. We were always together when these things happened so we were sure it wasn't us and we weren't imagining things. He passed away in the house. I could feel him there. I either hallucinated his shade or really saw it- once only. 3 days after he passed I caught a strong smell of his pipe tobacco and I KNEW. It was his goodbye. I blessed him and told him to move on to better things. He departed and took whatever spirit(s) were in the house with him. It is something he would do. Not a peep since. I've been a widow 21 years now.
2026-09-02 18:12:27
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marlisaw :
I sleep on Scott’s side now. I don’t have to look at him not being there.
2026-09-02 18:42:36
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lynnie :
After my Mom died our phone rang at 12:16 am every night for one year. My Mom’s birthday is December 16th
2026-09-02 15:10:45
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NannaHattie :
In what was the family home, my younger son (20) and myself would hear the door handle go up on the front door, the cupboards close in the kitchen. We would look at one another and my son would say, say nothing… early on I walked into the bedroom, lamp on and noticed a lump his side of the bed. I asked who’s that to hear him respond who the bloody hell do you think it is?!! I put my hand onto the lump for it to disappear. When holding his hand the best I could before his life support was switched off I could feel his hand squeezing mine like he always did but when I looked there was nothing… x
2026-09-02 12:58:35
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Tammy Axworthy :
i had a dream with him in it in the future home that we were talking about before he passed, sometimes he turns fan and tv on, just when i need it our song plays on radio
2026-09-03 00:22:48
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Clare read :
I don’t sleep on his side because I think he still does ❤️
2026-09-04 20:40:38
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KungFuUni :
Regarding my sister not husband, the night she died I had the most vivid dream she came to me to say goodbye, she died young because she had to do something. I dreamt of her once or twice after that but it felt fake and I hated it. That was 15 years ago. I recently had another dream, so vivid, so real, she told me she finished her task and wanted to be near me.
2026-09-03 01:03:21
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danielkmccormack :
My husband died in a car accident. He died nearly instantly. I have a recurring dream about him that is a total nightmare. It changes slightly but it’s always basically the same. I’ve never had a good dream about him. This is so disturbing to me I’ve never told anyone except my therapist. She said it is a ptsd symptom. It’s been 8 years and it hasn’t gone away. I don’t dream it a lot maybe every few months but I hate it.
2026-09-02 15:43:33
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WonderWoman7703!! :
Mine died 7 yrs ago from suicide and alcoholism. I died there with him I am trying to live a good life but it feels like no matter what I do things fail. -I have seen him in a few dreams and he never says anything jusy looks sad it makes me sad. -when I went to his sister's place as funeral was out of town the night before it felt like someone lied beside me - he hated it when I swore so I swear like a sailor now not cool but trying to slow that down -I have been in fight or flight for 7 yrs -everyone abandoned me cause covid hit 5 months after and I had to navigate this alone. -somedays it still feels like it jusy happened
2026-09-02 08:45:14
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tamwag :
My sweetheart (and Father of my daughter) died in October 2008. To this day, he still shows up in my dreams at least a couple times a month. 😳
2026-09-02 07:15:27
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jmimibon :
Sorry for your loss, my brother stomps around my house sometimes. I miss him, but glad he sometimes visits.
2026-09-02 19:12:34
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C.P :
We randomly smell Tom’s deodorant in the house. It’s never used, in a drawer upstairs. We know it’s him. 💙
2026-09-02 21:33:56
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Osusieq10💙 :
I have only dreamed of my husband once since he left and it’s been three years now. I also started sleeping on his side of the bed now.
2026-09-04 01:53:59
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trishacluney3 :
I was 25 and living at home when my mom passed away. Shortly after she passed, I would sometimes be startled awake because I "heard" her calling my name from the bottom of the stairs, only to be hit with the realization that she was gone. It was gut wrenching.
2026-09-03 01:51:56
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eve forster :
two days after my husband died the last painting i had done had moved on the wall at a 40 degree angle. no matter how many times I've tred to do the same the weight instantly returnes
2026-09-03 08:52:50
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Ashley Ramsey Moya :
Retreat
2026-09-02 23:22:55
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ew. :
It’ll be 3 months soon. When I could sleep in our bed again, i also immediately started sleeping on his side.
2026-09-03 01:23:47
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Edi :
Light
2026-09-02 21:28:24
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Susan :
I have only had 3 dreams in over 4 years
2026-09-03 01:35:12
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JNebraska :
3 out of 4 here. Wowza
2026-09-03 01:12:36
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Next_timebitch :
After my 17 y/o son died, he came to me in a dream so I could tell him I loved him and hug him one more time. I asked what he was doing with his After Life and he laughed and said he was in school (which he didn’t like, IRL). I asked what for and he told me he couldn’t tell me. My grandson was born two years later, has his middle name and has so many of the same unique expressions. Yes, I believe in reincarnation.
2026-09-02 23:14:03
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Angie🦀❤️ :
Just 2 years and I have no idea where time went. I am still learning but I’m not really sure the old me will ever return
2026-09-02 23:59:55
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Tina G :
When my husband died, within the first week and a half I had to completely redo my bedroom. No matter where I slept on the bed, his absence was suffocating. I bought new girly sheets. He would’ve hated, a brand new comforter, I just couldn’t deal with the same old bed without him in it. I needed it to look like a new bed, in a new spot in the bedroom. It did help a bit.
2026-09-02 22:56:12
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