@alyssalynn_: It’s 8 pm now I don’t think he’s coming #fyp #boyfriends #longdistance #foryoupage #relationships

Gavin :

Guys I literally don’t have a car at the moment 😞

🌀⭐Juk'ri • ──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝── :

spent the whole day waiting for my boyfriend to arrive after I spent $1k to fly out and see him, only for his dumbass mom to force him to ride along to the hospital because her friend was there 💔 spoiler alert, he never showed up and we couldn't crack in the hotel room and I couldn't propose to him 😔

glumeelink :

it always broke my heart to have to tell my girlfriend i wasn't coming and then to have to also make sure she new i wasn't pretending to stay away 😭

🤍. :

I do this to myself all the time. I make it up that hes gonna surprise me bc he has done it randomly before and then I just hurt myself 🤦🏽‍♀️

Breezy's Rodimus🔥🫐 :

i used to do this as a kid. I always wanted my birthday to feel special. and when it was never all that special, I would think to myself maybe there's a surprise. there never was

hollis (#1 tokishun fan) :

don't let these people tell you your bf isnt good enough with the "if he wanted to he would" stuff. he WANTS TO SEE YOU. he's doing what he can to see you as soon as he can. he'll probably treat you like the princess you are when you're finally together. much love ✨

४ 🄴va 🕷️🌊 :

these comments are so strange. as someone in a five year long term long DISTANCE relationship, the boyfriend has already communicated he cannot come, and it is strange to assume he was LYING about that. assumptions like this will make you miserable and ruin your relationship. you need to always take your partner at their word and believe in them unless you have explicit evidence to believe otherwise, or else resentment will build, and your relationship is going to fall apart. if anyone in the comments seriously believes she should leave him when he ALREADY communicated he CANNOT COME, you are strange.

𝒜𝓂𝒾 :

It’s literally one day a year and it’s the same date every year it’s not a surprise so I don’t understand why they can’t plan work ect around that one day it’s insane

Your dad :

Me convincing myself he’s coming to surprise me when there’s literally no signs at all that that’s gonna happen

𝓝 ꨄ︎ :

Iȥȥყ(Sƈαɾʅҽƚƚ'ʂ ʋҽɾʂισɳ♡) :

yall have to understand some things, ive been in a long distance for quite some time. and it is SO HARD to actually meet up with you s/o and plan it correctly without anything getting in the way. all you people in the comments talking bout some "he could of at least done this!" no he couldnt, he probably got caught up. maybe he doesnt have the money. maybe their to far away for an Uber or walking. some of yall have never experienced long distance

Tina Bug 🐞😋 :

Mines getting deployed the month before my birthday chat

rae :

girl by the sounds of it, just leave him. like ur saying he isn’t doing shit for you then leave him.

Delaney🔮🌀🌺 :

My bf (long distance) is in a band and they had a gig over my birthday weekend so I knew he wasn’t coming but I still had that hope😭

cam 🎶 :

Our 1 year was yesterday and I was sitting at home all day hoping maybe he would show up ☹️

marshmallow6000 :

Girl get some lamps I’d also be devastated with that top light on

.✦ ݁˖Princess Mysterion.✦ ݁˖ :

my bf promised our whole relationship he was gonna come to my high-school graduation and instead he broke up with me like a month before 💔✌️thats the way the cookie crumbles i guess

️jaci :

girl mines in missouri and im in ohio.

chris :

SOME OF YALL ARE WEIRD

Arti :

Beat him

grimmy7774 :

I went to NYC for my birthday and my boyfriend works a job where he’s out of state pretty much all the time. He was in Pennsylvania about a 2 Hour drive from where I was staying. I hadn’t seen him in like two months and I kept asking if he was coming and he kept saying maybe. The day before I left for New York I asked him if he was coming or not, and he said probably not. That really hurt because I knew that if I was in his position, I would’ve done it for him. I would do damn near anything for him. We talked about it and he tried to come after the fact, but I told him not to.

Michael Mizzell :

You know his car broke down. He said he couldn’t make it. It’s 4.5 hours away (an uber for that distance would be an obscene amount of money) and he couldn’t find a ride. Factoring all this in, it’s okay to be disappointed but putting the bf on blast for the internet to lambast is not. If it were me I’d rent a car but I’m also pushing 40 with a solid career, that may not financially or even legally be an option for someone who is ~21ish. But yeah I’d totally be reconsidering ever coming at all.

kai :

he couldn't take an uber...? 😭

livi 💿🍸🪐🧸 :

my boyfriend and i broke up because of distance five days ago. we’re still madly in love and miss each other desperately, but seeing each other ten days a year as college students (including summer, i moved) with no income and extremely full schedules truly isn’t feasible. everyone in an ldr is just doing their best every day, even though it sucks they have to miss some things sometimes

dusu :

Leave him