@coleluisdasilva: Parenting strats

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teezy8888
Lxx78w :
There’s a difference between discipline 🫱🏼and abuse 👊🏽 ….
2026-09-02 10:16:59
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not.akhil_
akhil :
Disciplining ur kids and beating ur kids are 2 seperate things
2026-09-02 19:03:41
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mf_4396
M :
Yeah, I’m not taking advice from anyone that thinks physical discipline is bad for children.
2026-09-02 12:24:07
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marco.ortiz_
Marco ✨⛰️🪵🌼 :
Never understood how hitting someone smaller and weaker than you in any way shows good leadership or emotional control, people love excusing child abuse
2026-09-02 21:32:19
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psipearl
Pearl :
No, disciplining your kids physically and abuse ARE the same thing. Hitting your kids when they do something wrong teaches them to fear you, they should love and respect you not fear you. Literally ANYTHING can be a punishment for kids. My parents would take away all my electronics when I did something bad. They would have me sit in timeout for a bit and then I learned my lesson. They had me TALK TO THEM when I did something bad to have me understand that what I did was bad. Never once did my parents hit me. Talking to your kids instead of hitting them teaches them empathy. Hitting them teaches them violence
2026-09-02 20:42:08
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itstartwithus_
itstartwithus_ :
Thank you for calling out all these weak-ass, sadistic parents who think beating a child is somehow discipline. Hitting someone smaller and defenseless does not make you a strong parent.
2026-09-02 15:47:24
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stachoman
stachoman :
🤣 all the people screaming about the physical discipline are telling on themselves
2026-09-02 21:58:33
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ji9star6769
✴️ji9star❇️ :
so for the people that are saying physical abuse is “discipline” it’s not. There was a Harvard research study that showed spanking has the same effect as SA on your child.
2026-09-02 23:01:43
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zukozeroo
ZukoZero :
people in the comments tryna excuse hitting kids but would never hit adults
2026-09-02 22:55:42
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femboy_jard
Nyan cat :
Whoever thinks beating and hitting your kid for discipline and thinks it's ok has to be satanism
2026-09-02 23:17:27
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reallistten
Real Listten :
yeah, no.. you lost me at discipline being F teir
2026-09-02 15:37:35
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atomnewgen
Ryu ishigori :
I don’t agree with the allowance chores thing, it should be higher because it teaches them how to do stuff
2026-09-02 05:26:16
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dequan.mp4
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Spanking is no different from physical abuse, the kids scream, they hurt, and they get scared and sometimes trauma. If your a parent and spank your kid (like i was) it can ruin your bond with your kid. Stop taking your anger out on your child and just talk it out and be patient
2026-09-02 20:28:41
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baxxynut
Baxxy :
Paying an allowance and giving them extra chores for money is S tier, idc what he says lmao
2026-09-02 19:28:03
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its.lucas__
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my kids have to play some sport
2026-09-02 05:20:56
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psipearl
Pearl :
Why is “hey we shouldn’t hit kids” considered a hot take I don’t get it
2026-09-03 01:12:22
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milkmanmemez
MorbidMemes :
Whooping your kids ass and BEATING your kid are 2 completely different things
2026-09-02 20:53:33
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ytcrystal_mc
Crystal :
Don’t force your kid to play a sport they will not enjoy it at all let them pick what they want to do ik from experience from being forced to not be able to quit a sport I didn’t enjoy
2026-09-02 18:43:42
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desir12341
☆࿐ཽ༵༆༒𝓓𝓮́𝓼𝓲𝓻༒༆࿐ཽ༵☆ :
So... My parents beat me and now I am a Masochist because of that. I flinch when tickled, I flinch when a hand is raised to many times around me. I respond to almost every single thing with panic when I'm not told what I did wrong, if I'm ignored I panic. Literally all of this any many more symptoms of this could have been avoided if I wasn't hit as a child. People who are saying hitting kids is discipline... Is it really worth risking your child or any child growing up fearing basic things?...
2026-09-03 01:16:49
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laine.xxyz
𝐴𝑙𝑒𝑥 𝐿𝑎𝑖𝑛𝑒🦶🏼❗ :
I hate when people say spanking is different than hitting because it’s not specially not to the kid either way they’re getting hit and especially if the parent pulls the child’s pants down to smack their butt like a lot of parents used to and some still do it’s crazy that they think that’s OK
2026-09-02 19:31:19
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kellychibiusa
Kelly/chibiusa :
This is a normal person who knows how to control their emotions around kids
2026-09-02 19:12:38
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voko_loko
Voko Loko :
said C but it’s in B lmao
2026-09-02 22:18:13
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