This is perpetuating loneliness. These people cannot communicate.
2026-10-14 14:02:43
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Pompom :
Will it be a bird?💀💀
2026-10-15 10:27:07
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tiktok_guy35 :
just talk to chatgpt
2026-09-03 06:35:42
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Justin Jones T :
This is exactly "Beef Season 1", almost cried on every scene that brings up this problem😭
2026-09-15 06:20:47
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Him :
If you want you partner to be your fulfilling sexual outlet, best friend, deepest mental stimulation, entertainment, emotional center, and a dozen other things - you're going to be disappointed. Nobody can be everything. You need more deep social connections in your life than just one. Your spouse should be your primary, bot your one and only answer to everything
2026-09-03 12:14:44
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Salvador Briggman :
Disagree. There are a lot of smart, highly educated, successful couples that are unhappy. The ability to communicate to different cognitive levels and personality types is more important.
2026-09-02 04:01:35
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Jennifer Le :
You’re right. This factor is also what distinguishes a friend from a best friend
2026-09-26 01:58:59
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jelly :
this is why it’s so important to have similar values on growth. if you are someone who continually challenges themselves and seeks to learn from every experience, your mind will be abundant with deep complex thoughts. being with someone who can understand those thoughts and continually understand them (as time passes) is someone who also prioritizes growth (similar to) the way you do. differing paces of growth and levels of patience is why some out grow their relationships.
2026-09-03 00:07:06
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blu3chip :
I can't share complex thoughts with my wife, but she seems to get my silly ones.
2026-09-02 04:11:01
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jackgmoroney :
Just left my 6.5 year relationship and this was one of the main reasons. I’m fascinated by space and how vast the universe is and every time I’d try to talk to my gf about it she’d just respond with something like “oh that’s nice” and it just left me feeling so hollow
2026-09-27 20:59:39
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Ray Chan :
Well damn, that severely limits my options
2026-09-03 05:43:02
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Kelsi Yuan :
I totally agree with you. This is why I’m so connected with my current bf who is also from my country and we have similar backgroundsI. I had trouble truly connect with the American guys 🤷♀️
2026-09-02 11:11:36
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exhaustedjezus :
I didn’t have a term for this, just “incompatibility” but this describes how I felt with people I enjoy going on dates with and feel attested to but can’t imagine being able to be fully seen by them
2026-09-02 19:01:12
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floating sherpa :
Why does your partner have to be the end all be all person that fulfills every need physically , romantically, psychologically, etc. this is bad advice.
2026-09-03 06:16:44
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Koko Kopi | Coffee and Science :
i met someone like this, and she called it “intellectual intimacy”
2026-09-16 23:10:39
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Augeresuiconscientia :
I figured this out while dealing with a narcissist. He could not comprehend beyond his own experience and lack of emotional maturity
2026-09-05 15:55:53
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Caelan :
This is also one thing I find strange about couples who can barely speak each others languages. What do they even talk about, or is the entire relationship just surface level?
2026-09-24 23:34:55
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lio.029 :
it's called a lack of cognitive intimacy
2026-09-03 03:44:09
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duc :
It’s hard to discuss complex quantum field theory issues with my partner, but I can hug her and issue melt away - for me it’s enough to make it through the most difficult times.
2026-09-08 04:35:49
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Vann :
Love the mother of my children, but I'm so lonely due to this, feels like I have a room mate or nanny. Sadly, going my own way now because of this.
2026-09-03 22:51:14
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morgasmus :
have your partner for cracking and have a close friend to have intelligent conversations
2026-09-08 15:45:04
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Mmmm….. :
Yeah this. Like who am I supposed to talk to? Even if I weren’t ace to me nothing bets the intimacy of knowing another’s mind and them knowing your.
2026-09-03 05:17:40
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AngTao :
when your parents get sick, someone get sicks, the finance part comes in as well
2026-09-15 15:51:31
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neri :
real
2026-09-14 17:23:32
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ÔKAMI SIGMA UNIVERSE :
Another complex term called "Incompatibility." 😂
2026-09-21 05:15:09
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