jo7iah
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Wednesday 02 September 2026 04:19:54 GMT
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darthcruzie :
Dating for me has become a radically different experience. Because individual regulation has become so much easier for me, I now find it difficult to deal with those that cannot emotionally regulate themselves. When I naturally find myself regulating them, I very quickly snap out of it, remove myself from the situation because I understand it’s not my responsibility to regulate them, and then I come off as cold or heartless. Now I see emotional immaturity. I will always stand by the fact that people are messy and nobody is perfect, but that has become a weight that I no longer choose to bare for anybody else. I’m choosing to experience myself in the moment while witnessing their behavior, and I’ve stopped letting them make excuses for that behavior.
2026-09-02 04:36:28
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Leon 🇯🇲 :
The problem with co-regulation is the moment you can't help them soothe, they become so disrespectful.
2026-09-03 13:41:02
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Queenofpop :
Thats how ppl get out of situations saying " I lost myself " I don’t know what my needs are anymore " I gave this person everything " when there should have been a balance
2026-09-02 06:19:45
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LiveinFaith :
That part!!!!!! accountability is key! My coach told me that I ruined my past relationship because I stopped being the person I was in the beginning and I became the person that I believed they needed. self abandonment was the poison. I didn’t even know I was administrating.
2026-09-02 05:44:14
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Hey, I’m Laura💗💫 :
This actually spoke to me so loudly that I’m saving it so I can listen to it again later. And probably again after that.
2026-09-02 09:51:20
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.☘︎ ݁˖Sophia ༘⋆✿ :
Damn another banger
2026-09-02 06:42:43
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Alice 🍉 :
Is this about the people who do this anxious cycle as a pattern? Cause a push-pull dynamic caused by avoidance can also have a conditioning effect that drags you down, even people with emotional maturity.
2026-09-02 06:35:36
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Skip Nedrick :
Needed to see this
2026-09-02 11:44:14
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Antonio Breez :
My guy started doing one on ones 😳🤧👏👏
2026-09-03 00:51:01
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irene83jay :
🙏🏾
2026-09-02 07:13:40
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