Thanks for talking about this! I grew up in India and the amount of colorism I experienced heavily shaped my childhood. Random people would ask my mom why I was so dark when she is light and express their condolences right in front of me. The message was there is something wrong with my very skin and I was destined for misery/no one would marry me etc. Now people talk about having “glow” instead of being “fair” but it means the same thing.
2026-09-08 22:02:46
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twinspirational :
We have every shade of color in our family. One of cousins - she and her husband and her son, her parents are all fair skinned and her 6 year old darker is significantly than everyone… and this little girl was asking our cousin why she’s so much darker than everyone else. I felt so bad hearing that because we are darker than our older sister and dad and remember being compared when we were kids. I told my cousin that she has to explain to her daughter that’s she’s beautiful. Hopefully the next generation doesn’t feel colorism the same way we did.
2026-09-18 14:09:04
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Kami :
Coming from a Guyanese woman and being darker skinned I was called blackie growing up and teased because of my skin color
2026-09-04 17:05:51
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Juney l ਜੂਨੀ l जूनी 🇺🇸🇮🇳 :
I guess personally I only experienced it once. I am the “light skin” in my family so always got “u r so pretty” UNTIL I got married to a guy who is even more light skinned than me. One of his friends goes “oh who cares about if she is darker than u at least u love her” 😂 like WTF. My sis in law also thinks she is “superior” cuz she is lighter skin. But over the years, I enjoy sun more and getting tanned and darker. No longer I am afraid of being in the sun as growing up we girls r taught to not get dark as if its a crime. There is SO much to this shitty side of our culture. Its embarrassing to even talk about openlyZ
2026-09-03 14:33:35
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💛 Yellow Submarine✨ :
Like it was palpable. Not palatable 😊
2026-09-20 00:18:01
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Dr.Shanthala Shivananjappa, MD :
Let’s stop worrying about the color and do the best version of who we are ❤️You already know that you are thoughtful, kind, compassionate and stunning so why worry about all these things.
2026-09-07 19:04:14
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sabletherabbit :
My sister is light skinned and I was dark, my mother was also dark, and was always asked how come sister was fair skinned.. my dad light skin,
2026-09-18 12:00:50
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Orvāia Motion|Clean Activewear :
Start by acknowledging the privilege!!! Can’t wait to watch your doc ❤️
2026-09-03 17:40:35
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artmicasa :
being mixed with prominent features & tan skin is no fun coz people guess my nationality by shallow judgement & assume my life story etc condescendingly coz they're very intimidated & disturbed
2026-09-08 05:31:47
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rogerp158 :
DM me Nina!
2026-09-19 17:13:01
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S Cook :
You’re so right and it’s interesting to see Americans trying to decipher what Indians mean by “dark skinned” because all Indians are tanned. But skin color definitely impacts a lot of economics for no reason and that is unfair, and that’s actually true globally.
2026-09-03 19:49:44
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Lem Dog :
Palpable ≠ palatable
2026-09-03 14:08:47
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mjaidev97 :
Well isn't privilege also winning beauty contests like Miss America and growing up with the feeling that you're attractive/beautiful? Even "fair skinned" people like me have no self esteem because I'm overweight and that's a death sentence in the western world. Plus being desi of course does not help
2026-09-04 06:51:26
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P :
This is so true
2026-09-04 13:42:11
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Dixon Pillay :
so true India is very colour conscious.
2026-09-05 19:11:02
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Juney l ਜੂਨੀ l जूनी 🇺🇸🇮🇳 :
Girl, sorry off topic, but that ring is SO gorgeous 🤩🤩🤩
2026-09-03 14:28:03
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Raja Govindaswamy :
you look gorgeous! and sexy....
2026-09-03 23:15:01
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Dance Always :
It’s also interesting that in many non white countries, you can take any white person ( the lowest of class) and they will get treated better than a dark skin person. Just imagine that!
2026-09-07 20:41:58
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Pree_doll :
Funny thing is other Indians never criticized or critiqued my skin color but def other races have! By that, I don’t just mean only negatively. Even saying they like my complexion is a red flag. Am I an animal? We don’t need to compliment someone’s color, we can’t help how we were born. It’s not something to compliment or criticize. It’s a moot point.
2026-09-16 01:37:18
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Dance Always :
Well… they certainly prefer yt people no matter how uneducated they may be. The ignorance of colourism
2026-09-07 20:39:25
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Johno :
White colonizers brainwashed Indians with colorism to create feud among themselves for centuries
2026-09-07 00:14:06
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Danny :
Lighter skinned ppl are privileged? What wrong did they do to be light skinned?
2026-09-03 16:37:28
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Stay smilin 🇨🇦 :
💯
2026-09-05 02:00:29
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Boney's Thoughts :
🔥🔥🔥
2026-09-08 09:34:05
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jdonomahu :
one of India's sin😌😌
2026-09-05 01:26:22
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