Dr. Kojo Sarfo
Region: PH
Wednesday 02 September 2026 16:00:00 GMT
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unsavoryvenus :
They’re YOUR safe person but you are not safe for them
2026-09-02 20:07:33
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Lyriel :
Yes but it’s also my responsibility NOT to do that to the people I care about and find other tools. It’s not fun, it’s not fair and it’s immature 🥀
2026-09-02 18:34:23
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seveneves5 :
My parents were like this, idgaf about them being neurodivergent. It’s abuse and the reason I don’t talk to them today. If you have a spouse or children, you need to get yourself together, even if that means masking for them as well. That behavior is unacceptable to anyone that loves you.
2026-09-02 19:54:43
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Evelyn Ventura :
still doesn't give you the right to talk a person any kind of way .... bounderies are necessary
2026-09-02 19:25:54
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Luna Scorpius🍉 :
I’m autistic and my partner is adhd. This happens daily and I always feel so horrible because it hurts his feelings so much. 😭
2026-09-02 21:13:17
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AnnieKu! :
My mom tells me my son was doing great all day & then the second I pick him up the mask drops. He loves her but I’m his safe space.
2026-09-03 00:05:33
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EvilGenius667 :
wow, I just had a realization about my own behavior with my partner. I owe her a conversation. thank you.
2026-09-02 21:26:28
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purp8fit :
Another way they can try to avoid self awareness and give excuses to their poor behavior.
2026-09-03 06:14:20
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TogerFace :
Holy frick this explains so much... I had no idea I was doing this and feel so bad. Had my hubby watch it too so we both get it, now my job is to try to do better.
2026-09-02 21:56:04
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Ashley Rae Zier :
We’re both neurodivergent and unload on one another…makes so much sense and now I need to text him and explain why we do this to each other!!! 🤍🤍🤍
2026-09-02 19:11:45
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Swallahan :
my poor husband is my safe person
2026-09-04 19:52:55
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Rin 🚫🤴 :
No no. My husband really does breathe in a super irritating way lmao
2026-09-03 01:32:52
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screencaptive :
sooo many times ppl close to me are like damn why are you pissed? and I'm just like this is me being normal I want to release my feelings idk
2026-09-02 16:46:02
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KennyKen :
wheewwww so this is what’s been going on
2026-09-02 18:16:17
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JayBrodnax :
we're being who we really want to be - irritable people
2026-09-05 12:42:05
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Stephanie :
This makes so much sense
2026-09-05 05:17:36
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EvilFrog33 :
ooph... this finally makes sense.. I actively try to be better around my safe people, and its always so hard and I'm ALWAYS so cranky with them... but *I* know the cranky isnt cranky.. its juat unmasked and overstimulated
2026-09-05 12:40:56
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RRT4Life86 :
my wife bears the majority of my angry outbursts, because my guard is the lowest with her. but she deserves better from me, she deserves to feel as safe as I feel.
2026-09-05 09:44:02
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spans44 :
Wdym comedy tour? I thought you’re a doctor 😭 sorry I’m just confused
2026-09-02 16:08:55
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No One :
When does it go from them being comfortable enough to unmask to being an emotional punching bag?
2026-09-02 23:49:39
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LolaLightHouse :
I don’t remember my childhood lol
2026-09-03 00:17:10
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Michael Coroy :
Just imagine how it feels being the punching bag for everything that happened to them at the end of the day when we did absolutely nothing to deserve it. There is no safety when you’re the one getting hit for someone else’s missteps. You can keep masking in that case.
2026-09-03 05:26:44
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Baraxis :
It’s nuts but I actually learned about this from an abuser (she’s a psychiatrist). She would call it the “safe person we can let our harsh parts out with because they can be trusted”.
2026-09-02 23:03:01
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Jexxisuss :
can you tag the creator pls?
2026-09-02 21:46:00
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pigeoN :
I would love for you to come to Bentonville AR! The teachers here really need you!
2026-09-03 02:14:42
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