@loudly.leo: And before you get mad at me, maybe get angry at the men who made women and girls feel afraid in the first place. #patriarchy #men #relationships #survivor #women

BenJuddArt :

Treat all guns as if they are loaded

Desiree_Jayne :

What’s frustrating is that men know this. Men themselves warn women about men.

johngillespie1968 :

u single

AllyForWomen :

If more men understood this the world would be so much better

cowboy :

why are there so many defensive men commenting

Ren🎶 :

And then when you do assume a guy is safe and you’re wrong, you get blamed for not “choosing better” 🙃

AJ :

'all men' as a matter of prudence ✅ 'all men' as a matter of fact 🚫

foleyexpress :

it’s all of us, myself included.

milachatting :

A lot of women in activist circles will tell you horror stories about men who are actively working against the patriarchy publicly. They actually can’t be good enough bc they aren’t.

Paul Norris :

A true predator will masquerade as a nice, kind, loving person. If a guy says he's a feminist be careful.

Leska_and_Luna :

I don’t think we should be telling them we know this… I feel like this will give them more ammunition 😳

MamaMewRebecca :

Victimized anywhere, and most of the time it’s in your own home.

Miles :

Treating all men as potentially dangerous is wisdom. I do that too. That's not typically how it's communicated on TikTok though. It's usually, "It's all men and only predatory men would dislike that."

jansilloway :

The number women who’ve told me they were SAed as a teenager by their “guy friends” makes me sick. This isn’t the date rape situation, this is a friend they trusted completely.

Layla :

the chilling thing to me is when we get face reveals of all the men saying heinous shit online, and they look like any given man at the store, at the office, on the street. they arent some crazy outliers. they exist carefree among us, and we interact with them without realizing it

Princeof_leo :

no one bats an eye when someone is scared of any dog after they got bite by one

TheNarcAssistCorner :

🌞🌈embracing-me🌈🌞 :

Potential is always there✨

CrimsonConquest :

I was pretty defensive of this topic for the first little bit not because of the “well its not all men” blah blah bullshit but because the statement can be harmful especially with how massive the internet impacts young audiences. HOWEVER its still a good message when explained properly like this video. Sadly I lost 2 young men I knew to the social detriment the blank statement had but I will never blow up at someone saying “all men” because ive been on each side of the meaning. I get its true meaning and this video explains it so fcking well. You are fantastic. Always be safe.

Valee Vande 🧿🆘🧿 :

Even the ones that aren't monsters, think we have it coming, protect predators, don't think we have it coming, but thinks it's how life is, still protecting predators, don't think we have it coming, but too scared to rock the patriarchal boat, protects the predators, and very very few are actually good men, that get mad when anything happens to us. And helps.

yeni_loves_art :

exactly!