@unpunishablewoman: Being married is not proof that a woman is more valuable, successful or complete than a single woman. Connection and companionship are human desires, but marriage is not a universal requirement for female happiness or worth.
The bar is so low that even not having a boyfriend in some cultures is seen as something is wrong with you.
2026-09-02 13:35:53
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jenniferwiseman :
I look back to when I was dating and am honestly ashamed at how much of a "pick me" I was. I see it clear as day now. Surely didn't then. I just wanted to be loved so badly.
Happily divorced now and never EVER letting a man in my space again.
I'm so happy I finally found my self worth.
2026-09-02 13:50:20
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Pink_Kem :
Male centered women beg to differ.
2026-09-02 22:10:14
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lifewithtedanddougal :
this is the one thing i struggle with. i am single, i have built a career, bought a house, i finance myself, I'm chair of the governing body of the sport i do, sit on charity boards, have two wonderful dogs. i'm successful. but there is a bit of me that still struggles to see my worth because no man has ever wanted to marry me or have a serious relationship with me. that struggle doesn't change my behaviour, but i do feel that nothing i ever do is good enough
2026-09-03 16:25:03
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Judy :
That's what they have conviced us women to believe. EFF SOCIETY.
2026-09-02 12:37:10
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🐮🍒📿☪︎(تصوف)محبت اور سچائی :
I don't need men or marriage.😁
2026-09-03 17:59:59
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Persona Non Grata :
Thank you I am having a hard time. I am 36 but an old 36 if that makes sense. A close friend from high school just married a doctor and my sister just announced an engagement. I am very single. Everything is a struggle and it makes it worse.
2026-09-03 03:38:35
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✨Sunny☀️Soul✨ :
Marriage is such a low value relationship that it has to have a contract to keep someone from leaving. 😂
2026-09-04 11:32:41
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sourdough421 :
Marriage if anything is a liability, if it’s not for love then its not even worth considering in my pov
2026-09-02 14:12:52
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SDiamond Luxi :
relationship with men can be extremely hard, this is correct- the value lying in being with a man in marriage, dating or relationship etc. is not true. the truth is it doesn’t make a lick of difference. a lady makes her own value, fulfillment & joy in her own life. that’s the truth. as long as your happy & living peacefully ignore the pressure
2026-09-02 13:43:19
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Olivia|Your Boujee Budget Babe :
So many women doing themselves a disservice thinking that marriage is a goal. They’ve achieved so much already that they should be proud of.
2026-09-02 17:28:46
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Phenyo :
If anything, from the stories that have been shared online (one TT post was on how their moms would've flourished had they not married. Be it them being Drs, Teachers, but well career-orientated), it has shown me that *most* times, marriage DE-VALUES a woman.
2026-09-02 12:49:09
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she.is.tima :
It is hard to see your magnificence when people make you feel otherwise. After I crashed and burned I let go of my good girl conditioning from my dysfunctional family environment
2026-09-02 16:16:04
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leeeeeeeeeee711 :
I love your videos, it brings me life!
2026-09-02 12:39:57
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shesabrik_house23 :
I think the fact a man didn't see me as malleable enough to marry is something I'm proud of😌 I demand mutual effort and have yet to find a man who puts in the level of effort and love I do.
2026-09-02 12:47:55
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Hon Reign👑🇲🇼🇺🇲 :
I love you girl!
2026-09-02 12:50:35
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Yolanda276 :
My father told me to remain single and make money for myself. He told me to not depend on a man. I have been doing this for years. I am happy being single because I see other women successful or not are exhausted from being married or in a relationship.
2026-09-02 20:55:17
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Tanya Isahall :
You better preach!! 👏🏾❤️🔥
2026-09-02 14:03:13
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findingfigure8 :
Center yourself and thrive
2026-09-08 23:53:00
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J. J. :
Fortunately, my parents and grandparents (who were a big part of our childhood) never made love, marriage, or relationships the #1 priority in our lives. They always taught us that we need to study, take care of ourselves, and have our own money, lives, and responsibilities.
My grandma didn’t even believe in friendships. She always taught us that we only need to love ourselves, and if someone good comes into our lives, it’s just a plus that we can cherish. But if something doesn’t feel right, we should turn our backs and walk away from any situation that isn’t bringing us happiness.
2026-09-07 13:24:38
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💛💜💫RayRay🧘🏽♀️💫💜💛 :
I just love your videos....I resonate 1000000%❗️❗️❗️❗️
2026-09-04 07:11:48
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GennyRi :
Just love you. You are always on piont. ❤️
2026-09-03 22:33:30
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durga :
you look so pretty 😍
2026-09-03 00:25:22
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