How someone treats you on your birthday is how they really feel about you!
2026-09-02 20:23:52
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Abby :
The whole “boundaries” and “I don’t owe anybody anything” mentality have ruined this generation
2026-09-03 01:26:51
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Jakara :
People nowadays are so fucking self centered its insane
2026-09-03 08:32:37
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Rebecca :
If we want a village we have to be a villager! 🥰
2026-09-02 14:10:18
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deepoe :
consideration is the highest form of love
2026-09-02 18:12:06
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itsmeredithblakeparker :
Hotter take: this is one night you don’t dip early. Any other time you can leave because of work, being tired etc. bdays are for showing up AND showing out. Curate the vibe with your positivity and hype!!!
2026-09-02 16:19:49
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AL :
I was broke as fuck, exhausted, and super depressed during a weekend that was multiple friends birthdays in a row. I showed up every single night though and nursed a $3 beer while celebrating them. No excuse. Show up for your friends
2026-09-02 19:15:51
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𝔇🤍 :
I hate how casual it’s become to not show up for your friends.
2026-09-04 22:28:48
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Loey 🦋 :
Also hot take: if they helped you move, you have to help them move in the future.
2026-09-02 20:13:11
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Emily :
This job ain’t optional either 😭
2026-09-02 15:51:21
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GreenMeggsAndHan :
Weddings and other special events too…
2026-09-05 20:05:25
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Definitely not your mom :
If you can’t go, text them. Make a plan to celebrate another day. Send a gift. Make them feel loved!
2026-09-02 15:46:29
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6🖤 :
when did we stop sacrificing ourselves for our friends ??? that’s why friendships don’t last nowadays
2026-09-02 22:36:25
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˙⋆✮ruunic❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ :
“i think im gonna go home..” she then posted on her story and she was out with her boyfriend..
2026-09-05 19:52:01
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Xeleighta :
I disagree. If someone doesn’t show up for my birthday things happen. You never know what someone’s going through mentally or physically and the show up no matter what can be pretty ableist. Not everyone is gonna have the same capacity as others and if they show up for you any other day of the year that matters more. All these comments about no one wanting to be a villager as if a village is based on one day
2026-09-05 15:59:15
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🫨 :
Why would I want to ruin my friends bday if I'm the Debbie downer
2026-09-05 19:47:42
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🩰✨🦢🎀 :
People have lives
2026-09-05 19:45:44
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melanie 𖦹 :
Can’t believe people are disagreeing with this!!!
2026-09-02 16:24:11
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♊️ :
i feel like a lot of you guys would be a lot less miserable if you went and hung out with your friends more often. why are you acting like it’s such a burden to go and have fun
2026-09-03 04:53:09
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Atthebottomofthe world💁♀️ :
Look I don’t have any money
2026-09-05 02:54:56
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sierra malia :
deadass if i invite you to my birthday and you dont come we are not cool anymore
2026-09-02 22:08:25
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ElizaIrene :
CELEBRATE YOUR FRIENDS! SHOW UP FOR YOUR FRIENDS!
2026-09-02 16:25:29
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˗ˏˋ jordan ˎˊ˗ :
i don’t understand anyone who disagrees with this 😭 if you physically cannot be present at the birthday event then a true friend would go out of their way to individually celebrate with you another day not just skip past it like a regular day. all these “we are grown” replies are just excuses to be a shitty friend & person lol
2026-09-03 09:56:21
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jp : ) :
the guilty beansoupers have entered the chat
2026-09-02 18:35:21
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