Lydia as someone who has been married for 9 years, love doesn’t hit you in the face right away. It might for some people, but love is gentle and slow. So if you feel comfortable with someone, give them a chance even if you think it’s just friendly.
2026-09-03 07:00:41
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julia.mac15 :
This may be a hot take but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you dating someone short term right now. Learning how to be in a relationship and how to be loved in really hard. Flexing those dating muscles will get you ready for your husband.
2026-09-02 15:03:12
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Rhi :
Girl I’m gonna be so honest w you…if you texted me “he is risen” I’d ghost you too
2026-09-02 21:56:36
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vanessaaa :
girl...stop allowing men that you barely know to take you home, meet your dog, etc so early on.....that's like #1 rule in dating
2026-09-02 15:50:02
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Joanna Parker :
Not you texting He is risen 🐰 and him being like well my dog isn’t 🐶 (I also got ghosted on Easter)
2026-09-02 15:28:52
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TheLady&TheElliot :
Drop you home on a first date? No No.
2026-09-02 16:25:28
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Abigail Lee :
It’s so refreshing to see someone dating with purpose and not settling. It’s hard out there!
2026-09-02 14:26:32
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Beth :
Nooo. The last guy had me giddy as hell for you. Proud of you for taking the leap in dating this summer!
2026-09-02 14:16:17
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aggie :
what do you think about the perspective that you can date intentionally but also not expect someone to "be ready for marriage" after the first few dates? You can be ready for marriage but only if it's with the right person... but how will you know after 3 dates right? I feel like there's a middle ground commitment that you may not be prioritizing not only for yourself but also at the sake of getting your true intentions across (for lack of better words - not being crazy clingy right away but serious about the future). To protect yourself against being naive, especially with online dating
2026-09-02 21:34:04
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moop :
The last guy sounds so promising 🥺
2026-09-02 19:57:15
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faithandgrace :
you're supposed to have friend vibes first. thats very important
2026-09-11 17:45:03
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Jay :
Lydia is tryna find her mannnn! I’m here for it
2026-09-02 14:41:16
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BG :
The dating scene is horrible 😣
2026-09-02 14:15:39
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Allie Fisher :
See the “problem” is they know you have standards, they don’t want to be held to that standard. They were too weak
2026-09-02 15:34:14
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Squiggly Pop 🍉 :
Great job putting yourself out there!
2026-09-02 14:45:13
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sz521843 :
You’re soooo Vera Bradley
2026-09-02 17:09:55
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Farhaa :
im out here constantly looking for updates waiting on thr day you find your man😭
2026-09-02 14:33:58
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bscmmooe7zi :
Can you be more specific when you say “we wanted different things or you’re in different places”??
2026-09-04 11:49:01
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FunNess :
proud of you for putting yourself out there. Please do not let these guys bring you home and know where you live. They are strangers. Stay safe 🫶
2026-09-02 14:45:36
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iron deficient vampire :
atp you're gonna have to hop on a plane and date somewhere else girl 😭 the US seems so barren rn 😭
2026-09-02 14:32:15
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Granny ✌️& ❤️ :
Regarding the last guy, how about dating more and see if one of yalls future goals change. If it’s the right person one or both of you will do a little moving those goals around. Does that make sense?
2026-09-02 22:14:47
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caffeine addict :
what do you mean they were looking for different things? do they not want a family yet ?
2026-09-02 15:23:58
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Kieran :
I want to know what those things are that are different!
2026-09-02 15:27:00
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Morgan :
you need to rethink what the word traumatizing means.
2026-09-02 22:57:40
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📧Ⓜ️Ⓜ️📧 :
do you feel like hinge is a good way to find good men? i am very resistant to dating apps but idk what to do
2026-09-02 15:22:55
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