@coach.ryan0: Ending the relationship was their right. Deceiving you, devaluing you, blindsiding you, rewriting history, and treating you like disposable garbage was NOT. Stop calling emotional brutality “just a breakup.” They didn’t discard you because you had no value. They discarded you because honoring your value would have required empathy, honesty, and accountability… three things emotionally unavailable people desperately avoid. #AvoidantAttachment #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantDiscard #EmotionalAbuse #BreakupRecovery

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dayone472
Day one :
In middle of cancer treatment and 6 years together and he just discarded me and blocked on everything in our 40s not kids! It’s destroyed me
2026-09-03 09:00:50
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aurorahunter25
AuroraHunter :
They’re disgusting people and will get their karma
2026-09-02 20:34:36
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henny.margarite
Henny Margarite :
Avoidants even if not diagnosable narcissists do it to have power too
2026-09-02 22:42:27
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capnmorgandarts
capnmorgandarts :
What gets me is that she told me that I treated her better than anyone else ever had, but then she ended the relationship less than a month later with absolutely zero discussion about whatever issues she had, let alone an opportunity to fix those unknown issues. Then, she IMMEDIATELY jumped into a new relationship with someone else (within days, if not hours), and then married him within 3 months of discarding me. WTAF? If she hadn't told me that I treated her better than anyone else ever had, or that my adult daughter would struggle to find a man who'd live up to the behavior I'd displayed, then I'd absolutely think something major was wrong with me.
2026-09-05 00:47:39
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gstyler79
gstyler79 :
Totally agree but wtf can you do? Avoidants need therapy and if you have the possibility to do it with them all the better; but it's very difficult to get them to choose it on their own. BTW I was discarded after 12 years together...it's painful a/f!
2026-09-03 19:38:38
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rickibear
Richelle Bele :
After 9 years of marriage I got a 1am email after sleeping in the same bed the night before. 2 weeks no contact so far. I'm broken but working on myself now.
2026-09-03 06:10:24
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your2spirit
tatiii :
8 discards in 4 Years...I'm done
2026-09-04 07:55:31
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l_a_y100
L_A_Y100 :
It’s quickly becoming the norm.
2026-09-02 20:35:23
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ryanandnoni
Ryan & Noni :
thank you always brother. 10 years, & I was brutally discarded in a day, then cut off. I'm wounded & alone forever.
2026-09-03 23:42:37
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iop33a33
¹⁹⁹¹ ‘ :
What does it mean if a fearful-avoidant person, after being absent for two months and blocking me on Snapchat, starts changing his WhatsApp profile picture and posting some photos related to his workplace? Is this an attempt to get my attention? For context, he only uses WhatsApp when there is conflict and distance between us.
2026-09-02 17:27:23
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joanneperry442
fitjo :
They need to stay single end of
2026-09-04 23:00:34
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michele77076
michele :
40 year breakup,emotionally detached before he left,does not wish to communicate what so ever???
2026-09-03 15:43:52
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willow33350
Gypsyyosha1333 :
I was no longer blindsided because it happened so much and I went back so much. It’s almost like I knew when he would break up with me again.
2026-09-02 19:00:26
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sooby504
sooby504 :
True story 💯
2026-09-04 21:36:03
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be.urself2b.happy
Sunshine :
💯 it’s tough. You are on your own. But this leads to a real healing.
2026-09-02 17:53:14
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mia420989
Mia :
Dekuji 🥰👌
2026-09-04 12:26:55
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bethhebharris78
Beth Harris :
💔
2026-09-04 22:19:44
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