@coach.ryan0: Ending the relationship was their right. Deceiving you, devaluing you, blindsiding you, rewriting history, and treating you like disposable garbage was NOT. Stop calling emotional brutality “just a breakup.” They didn’t discard you because you had no value. They discarded you because honoring your value would have required empathy, honesty, and accountability… three things emotionally unavailable people desperately avoid. #AvoidantAttachment #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantDiscard #EmotionalAbuse #BreakupRecovery
In middle of cancer treatment and 6 years together and he just discarded me and blocked on everything in our 40s not kids! It’s destroyed me
2026-09-03 09:00:50
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AuroraHunter :
They’re disgusting people and will get their karma
2026-09-02 20:34:36
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Henny Margarite :
Avoidants even if not diagnosable narcissists do it to have power too
2026-09-02 22:42:27
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capnmorgandarts :
What gets me is that she told me that I treated her better than anyone else ever had, but then she ended the relationship less than a month later with absolutely zero discussion about whatever issues she had, let alone an opportunity to fix those unknown issues. Then, she IMMEDIATELY jumped into a new relationship with someone else (within days, if not hours), and then married him within 3 months of discarding me. WTAF? If she hadn't told me that I treated her better than anyone else ever had, or that my adult daughter would struggle to find a man who'd live up to the behavior I'd displayed, then I'd absolutely think something major was wrong with me.
2026-09-05 00:47:39
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gstyler79 :
Totally agree but wtf can you do? Avoidants need therapy and if you have the possibility to do it with them all the better; but it's very difficult to get them to choose it on their own. BTW I was discarded after 12 years together...it's painful a/f!
2026-09-03 19:38:38
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Richelle Bele :
After 9 years of marriage I got a 1am email after sleeping in the same bed the night before. 2 weeks no contact so far.
I'm broken but working on myself now.
2026-09-03 06:10:24
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tatiii :
8 discards in 4 Years...I'm done
2026-09-04 07:55:31
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L_A_Y100 :
It’s quickly becoming the norm.
2026-09-02 20:35:23
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Ryan & Noni :
thank you always brother. 10 years, & I was brutally discarded in a day, then cut off. I'm wounded & alone forever.
2026-09-03 23:42:37
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¹⁹⁹¹ ‘ :
What does it mean if a fearful-avoidant person, after being absent for two months and blocking me on Snapchat, starts changing his WhatsApp profile picture and posting some photos related to his workplace? Is this an attempt to get my attention?
For context, he only uses WhatsApp when there is conflict and distance between us.
2026-09-02 17:27:23
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fitjo :
They need to stay single end of
2026-09-04 23:00:34
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michele :
40 year breakup,emotionally detached before he left,does not wish to communicate what so ever???
2026-09-03 15:43:52
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Gypsyyosha1333 :
I was no longer blindsided because it happened so much and I went back so much. It’s almost like I knew when he would break up with me again.
2026-09-02 19:00:26
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sooby504 :
True story 💯
2026-09-04 21:36:03
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Sunshine :
💯 it’s tough. You are on your own. But this leads to a real healing.
2026-09-02 17:53:14
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Mia :
Dekuji 🥰👌
2026-09-04 12:26:55
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Beth Harris :
💔
2026-09-04 22:19:44
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