@thechrishinton: Every romantic relationship ends because of unmet expectations. The problem isn’t having expectations. Relationships require them. The problem begins when we become attached to the outcome and start trying to control another person to meet them. #relationships #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #selfawareness #healing

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mishalix
Heidi :
well, I expected him to live and not die. 😭
2026-09-02 19:10:08
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cheftkh
Chef TK :
I mean that’s obvious
2026-09-08 06:51:55
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giggles.gomez
giggles gomez :
What a conundrum!
2026-09-08 02:52:11
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ladygee230
Ladygee230 :
How can you be that handsome and also be so emotionally astute?
2026-09-03 01:50:02
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rollrolly75
mozzley :
so true.
2026-09-06 20:15:56
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d10spro
David :
unconditional love is BS
2026-09-02 21:06:02
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angieholbrook
Simply🌺 Angie :
Unconditional love does not mean unconditional acceptance of bad behavior.
2026-09-03 04:49:29
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robinw2658
🌸 Robin 🐦 🕊 :
Yes, expected them to follow through w what they promised.
2026-09-08 01:24:52
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simplyme9073
❤️SIMPLYME❤️ :
Yes, you're absolutely right us. As humans tend to expect the same as we treat the other person, unfortunately, 9 times out of 10 that doesn't happen. And we end up disappointing ourselves.
2026-09-06 18:36:26
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tx_patriot8
TX_PATRIOT :
Is expecting her to stop drinking, too drunkenness, every day, for a year, too great an expectation? I filed for a divorce, but it’s still kicking my ass.
2026-09-02 21:54:34
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dcrobinson24
Denise :
Well, he said he was married once before me and turns out he was married 7 times before. I guess I expected honesty…
2026-09-02 20:24:20
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winstons.mom5
Winston's Mom❌️ :
I like the way you've explained this!! It puts responsibility where it belongs!! I can only control myself, my words and actions!
2026-09-02 17:08:08
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wendydawson80
Wendy Dawson :
He wanted zero consequences and got consequences… 🤣
2026-09-02 18:30:22
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nursepattyread
Nurse Patty BSN RN :
Expectations lead to disappointment…
2026-09-02 19:07:28
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elephnt69yahoocom
elephnt69yahoocom :
exactly.
2026-09-07 16:45:42
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julimelicoop
Julia 🌺 :
Hey... So can you at least kiss the brick next time before hurling it at my face? 🥹
2026-09-02 18:15:55
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dan_harrell
Dan :
Chris, it has taken a long time for me to integrate everything you are saying. The content of the book is great and all the examples you walk through in your content further explains how those concepts apply to real life in very practical ways. I better understand why “love is not enough”, especially when there is a disparity in the expectations and transactional nature in a relationship. Thank you for these practical explanations. I am often surprised at the voices that I discover in my family system. Some have been there so long that they “seemed” to be my observer until I dug deeper. So, thank you for these practical explanations work you do, and I hope it helps others in the way it has helped me.
2026-09-03 11:50:17
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desireet73
desireet73 :
He was emotionally abusive, to me AND THE KIDS, I set a boundary, left because he chose to cross that boundary. I moved on, he acted like the victim. No harm no foul, but distance became the new boundary to avoid continued manipulation and emotional abuse. What would you call that? Me asking for too much? Something wrong with me? I’m just trying to under the point. Or no? It’s good?
2026-09-02 21:28:11
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bagels967
carollazar36 :
Boundaries were crossed!!
2026-09-02 18:03:19
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mkelley112
Milissa Kelley :
It’s all about you not them. Thanks for breaking it down. 💗
2026-09-02 18:09:42
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pinaypie04
beach girl :
than
2026-09-02 22:05:22
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onegoodhalfbred
Precious :
Dam
2026-09-03 03:52:17
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jsk9297
jsk :
wow, that was heavy. Really helpful.
2026-09-04 08:01:05
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avirgo9w
Avirgo9w :
One word, WOW!
2026-09-03 08:25:14
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