The Pottymouth Guru
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Wednesday 02 September 2026 17:33:50 GMT
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The Pottymouth Guru :
The “payout” part pissed me off the first time I learned it too. 🫠 It doesn’t mean you WANT the pattern. Sometimes the payout is literally just: “If I do this, I don’t have to feel that for the next five minutes.” What does your go-to pattern get you away from? 👀❤️🤟🏻🌿
2026-09-02 17:35:09
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User24/25/26 :
Thank you I just caught myself watching these tiktoks that put me in a terrible mood and then u popped up
2026-09-02 17:49:52
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puddle_duck001 :
girly, you've landed on an entirely different continent over here. Welcome to my FYP 🙋🏻♀️x
2026-09-06 04:45:44
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Chantelle Lynn :
My marriage counselor has been saying a lot that you are saying but you explain it so much better. She was really pissing me off because there were no examples or context. You make everything you say so much easier to understand. And I too have a pottymouth so the f-bombs here and there really make it easier 😂
2026-09-12 20:37:36
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NoDoubtRoustabout :
Been getting a lot better at being uncomfortable… sitting in the suck ain’t easy but the long term payouts are worth it.
2026-09-03 09:38:43
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jennifer_laura49 :
I TOTALLY know the is about myself. I wish I knew how to get myself out of the loop! Thanks for making it make sense!
2026-09-02 19:41:03
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Scott 🇨🇦 Auty Ursid :
I'm giving up on the cheese. Guide me out of the trap.
2026-09-02 23:27:11
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Nolongerapastorswife (Casey) :
I am learning this! It’s sooo hard!! My therapist and I had been having it OUT about this for months about why it benefited me from over functioning or pursuing or not having boundaries etc. and I was so stuck thinking I wanted the pattern (I didn’t) and now I GET it. It’s worth the work but it’s so HARD
2026-09-03 00:25:46
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Carolyn :
I have (undiagnosed but FOR SURE) OCD and while I know you’re talking about shame here, dealing with OCD is very similar - I have to sit with the fear and uncertainty instead of asking for reassurance all the time (even though the compulsion to ask temporarily reduces/removes the fear)
2026-09-03 05:35:14
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perpetuallyDehydrated :
wanted to say thank you for taking the time to explain this. and I really enjoy your shifts into different accents. tickled my brain!
2026-09-05 13:35:16
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Lizard 🇨🇦 :
thanks for calling me out. my algorithm is right on point
2026-09-02 23:54:26
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traceydreamc :
thanks for this perspective. extremely timely for me
2026-09-03 00:04:21
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Share Ledra :
I’m convinced that my mind brings up scary things to keep my nervous system in a heightened state because that’s how my system was operating for years. And now in burnout recovery trying to show my system a new way.. my mind brings up scary things…
2026-09-02 23:22:43
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Colleen McCool :
So on time!! Thank you
2026-09-02 21:11:16
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Toontz🇨🇦 :
Im glad its not mainstream… then people wont know I am dealing with Shame,Trauma,Attachment problems,Emotional Neglect,and everything else you mentioned. 😁 Glad you’re in my life.💕 Love the pearls by the way.
2026-09-02 23:02:59
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hackneyed.one :
I like your content. Simi related, I feel like a freedom fighter who may be good at the bloody coup part but now I have to balance a budget, build infrastructure, engage in diplomatic relations... I believe I'm capable, I've come this far but it is different now.
2026-09-02 23:19:27
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BoobyGrow :
Almighty insight !!
2026-09-02 23:44:37
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whatamidoingwithmylife :
thank you so much
2026-09-02 23:20:32
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f3ralcampari🔻 :
your content has made it easier to explain things to my STBX-husband. I'm no longer waiting for him to change for me, but I can't fully give up because my son deserves a father who can sit with uncomfortable feelings for longer than two seconds before exploding or abandoning himself.
2026-09-02 20:52:25
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dev :
consider my knickers fucking knotted
2026-09-04 02:36:28
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The Pottymouth Guru :
Studies I mentioned: https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jcbs.2025.100895 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1583222/
2026-09-02 17:38:42
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