@wlw.girl74: I am sort of attracted to men but the idea of spending my life with one feels wrong. I don't know what to do.😭#help #wlw #lesbian #bi #question
As a lesbian my opinion is If you’re attracted to men in a sexual and romantic way then you’re bisexual even if you don’t like the idea of spending your life with one! But if you’re attracted to them in an ONLY in an aesthetic way like “oh he looks so handsome” or “oh he’s cute” then MAYBE you’re a lesbian.
2026-09-18 04:56:13
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ChallengeAccepted :
Yea I wish I could identify as lesbian but I'm homoromantic Androsexual (only date/romantic feelings for women, but find masculinity sexually attractive no matter the gender)
2026-09-17 00:50:57
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Annora🌷 :
i’m a femme and i’m here to tell you, you might just want to date a butch. It was ROUGH trying to figure out if i was actually attracted to men bc every time i tried to date them it felt SO off, but it turns out im just attracted to masculinity, not the men
2026-09-04 22:45:31
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🐾 alexander! :
honestly, unless you're really strict about your own labels - use whichever one you feel suits you best. or start digging up microlabels
2026-09-02 18:57:36
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Fizzy ︴COMMS OPEN ✶ :
berrisexual perhaps
2026-09-02 19:25:40
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𝔎𝔦𝔫𝔤𝔬𝔣𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔩𝔞𝔟 :
Im lowkey late but this is me too I still call myself bi but yk just do you and date who you love
2026-09-15 23:48:10
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seven :
labeling used to be so irrelevant in the queer community. if it helps you then sure but pls don’t feel pressure that you have to. all my queer aunts and uncles would just say they were gay and sleep with who they pleased and nobody batted an eye.
2026-09-04 20:13:31
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Special Name :
You don't have to care about the label, just date who you wanna
2026-09-02 19:39:43
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루시 주시 :
You could be bisexual with only romantic attraction to women
2026-09-06 16:00:52
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Leah 📖 :
berrisexual maybe
2026-09-02 18:23:12
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bl00dngutz :
Ok, the best LABEL I could think of is bisexual but sapphoromantic, I made it up I think but it just means that you have an attraction to men just not romantically, the romance option is only for women
2026-09-02 19:19:49
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😍pretty in pink😍 :
there are 7 types of atraction, which do you feel for each gender?
honestly turning lesbian was a slow shift for me, I still feel latent romantic atraction to men but only really wanna be deeply connected as super close friends, I could wanna spend all day with a guy but nothing more than having fun and hanging out all the time almost everyday.
I still feel some atraction to men at times and I often confused this for being bi, being lezbain is kinda in phases for me where im not always thinking about women, its just what comes with getting older.
I still get icked out at the thought of kissing men, it feels foreign and I dont wanna explore that, I just wanna occasionally admire thier bodies and hang out with them and nothing more which is why im a lezbian, I feel all 7 types of atraction for women but only 2 for men, the surface level ones you often feel for friends
2026-09-06 19:19:25
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Lesbin 🤩 :
The question is more so are you attracted to men or do you like the idea of them being attracted to you due to comphet, do you also struggle knowing the difference between platonic and romantic/sexual feelings are you actually attracted to them or do you see them as objectively attractive, it’s like straight women call women hot all the time same with gay men calling women hot all the time doesn’t mean they’re lying it just means they have eyes and they can acknowledge that the person is an attractive person, it took me a while to understand that I wasn’t bi I was just struggling with comphet obviously I’m not saying you are a lesbian or not those are just important questions to ask yourself
2026-09-02 18:37:43
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⦻ pig baba ⦻ :
there’s comphet and there’s being exhausted with men. it’s a hard line. for me personally, i knew it was comphet because i wanted to be found attractive but as soon as a man found me attractive, i’d change my appearance. i looked for every way out of my marriage with a man because the thought of never marrying a woman freaked me out and i hated being with men. i felt like i wasn’t myself and i would constantly need to dissociate when with men.
2026-09-08 14:12:14
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Noah :
i stopped thinking ab it and just call myself sapphic, bisexual does not feel right but i'm also not 100% sure w lesbian
2026-09-08 13:13:16
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Victoria/VI ❤️🩷🤍🧡💜 :
I'm a lesbian
2026-09-12 19:32:25
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Connor (Powerline’s Version)⚡️ :
You’re either bi with a preference. Or uou’re a lesbian appreciating a man’s looks, which is fine.
2026-09-02 20:41:03
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𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒌𝒚 Schalke Mlster23 :
bi and aromantic towards men i guess?
2026-09-02 18:17:42
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Solaris 🇩🇰 :
Sounds like you might be sexually attracted to men, but not romantically attracted to them. In that case, you'd be bisexual homoromantic.
2026-09-05 01:00:40
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I am paper :
Idk girl I’m in the same boat that bisexual flag staying up until further notice
2026-09-08 11:23:31
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Ace :
You could be homo-romantic and bi-sexual. I separated them cos its different attraction, and need the emphasis
2026-09-05 06:49:01
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Juno :
DUDE SAME
2026-09-07 21:04:37
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🌀⚝(uoᴉsɹǝʌ s,פפ) ƃuᴉɹdS⚝🔆 :
could be Berrisexual.
2026-09-04 03:02:33
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🏳️🌈_~🎧🌙[Moon]🌙🎧~_🏳️🌈 :
Maybe bierrysexual?
2026-09-02 18:54:42
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Altar_of_Flesh :
as a lesbian. go on a deep dive research spiral about heteronormativity and see if that resonates with you.
for me personally, it took me not dating men and actively dating women to realize that id rather never date a man and my "attraction" to them was a combination of liking feeling desired and religious indoctrination that my life would be meaningless without a man.
also. bi is totally fine and valid. you can be bi with a preference for women, with all these bi women exclusively dating men, identifying as bi and only dating women is praxis, actually.
2026-09-04 17:39:46
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