@pearlinprocess: This isn't a desire problem. It isn't an attraction problem. It isn't a marriage problem. When your nervous system has been running on empty all day — managing, anticipating, producing, caregiving — it doesn't have the capacity to transition into openness and intimacy. It has the capacity for one thing. And it isn't sex. Understanding that distinction changes everything about how couples navigate low desire in high-demand seasons. Link in bio. #rescriptingsex #desire #nervoussystem #christianmarriage #intimacyissues

Dr. Ashley Hudson, LCSW
Dr. Ashley Hudson, LCSW
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christophercurle
Tipper :
No such thing as the mental load
2026-09-03 08:44:01
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jenniferwalls50
jenniferwalls50 :
I get off about 1 in 3 times. sometimes I think I want it more that my husband became I have to get through the 2 before I get. After 25 years together we still find new things to do. We have less stress, less responsibility and less people in the house with us and I think it might be my hormones changing but I love it more than ever. My point is it gets better with time so don't give up 💖💖💖
2026-09-04 21:24:35
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user4322422763741
user4322422763741 :
Totally get it. But don’t prioritize one relationship need over any other. Being married is basically ridiculous- nobody’s happy
2026-09-02 18:10:58
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unsolicitedopinions4less
GAY AND RETARDED :
wat if it isn’t about u but the marriage
2026-09-03 03:30:24
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kaymiya1
Kay Kay :
add being a therapist.
2026-09-05 13:54:09
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trumpet.trompeta
trumpet.trompeta :
You speak truth
2026-09-02 19:55:57
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bjrichardson8
Time Passages :
Go find the needle in the haystack, then thread it from 10 feet away. Then maybe, just maybe there will be intimacy. 🙄 Many women need to learn to let go of some stuff. And yes, there are things that can be let go. My ex-wife’s response to feeling overwhelmed was to take on more. There’s no getting out of that spiral.
2026-09-03 15:58:53
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mrheche
user7072409837578 :
Running household is a full-time job. Mothers working full time jacks up the stress and destabilizes marriage.
2026-09-03 03:54:49
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