@abbyeckel: “The old ball and chain” “just wait” etc etc etc. Men have been trained to hate their wives and it’s become so normalized it’s a comedic trope. Everybody loves Ray, king of queens, married with children, according to him - all had husbands who acted like they hated doing anything for their wives and families. And not just that - but we’ve normalized this as acceptable behavior to women. That this is just expected. That your husband will despise doing anything with you or for you, that he won’t take interest in your interests, that he’ll act like another child and it’ll be this he he ha ha scenario. And then we wonder why women initiative divorce 73% of the time. Because women aren’t oblivious to it anymore and they realize their partner shouldn’t outwardly and confidently dislike them.

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mandy_1144
mandy_1144 :
They genuinely hate us.
2026-09-02 21:11:30
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tiktokfun889
LoveUrLife :
Men are so bizarre. Just stay single. Its so much easier
2026-09-03 12:48:28
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michaelgelsomini
michaelgelsomini :
I hate that comments are short form. Most of the clips like there are edited and spliced in the ones that fit the comments they want. I’m sure just as many said they love going. But that doesn’t make good content and second I nor any of my friends were ever raised to hate or disrespect woman. Where is that coming from.
2026-09-06 01:32:16
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diabloninja84
diabloninja84 :
I love going anywhere with my partner, Costco, Walmart, whatever.
2026-09-05 22:55:18
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bigandtallwomensedition
BigandTallWomensEdition :
“The divorce came out of no where!!”
2026-09-02 19:42:27
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topwright
⦻ ɪ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴍᴇɴ ⦻ :
my dad can go to the one place he hates MOST in the world, but he'll be fine if he's with my mom
2026-09-03 13:36:30
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thigh_high_cry
🩷🧡🤍 Hudson🤍🧡🩷 :
As a lesbian, I love going anywhere with my wife except for the local Walmart which overstimulates the shit outta me. Anyways, her favorite color is maroon, our anniversary is 4/20 and 12/9 depending on wedding and when we got together, her favorite flowers are wildflower mixes and dahlia’s, she prefers Sativa over indica, her birthday is 6/28, her favorite shows are bones and orphan black, I clean the home because cleaning stresses her out and induces a trauma response, she cooks because she doesn’t like my cooking (tbf she’s really good at it, and I need to take a class) but she likes my fun appetizers, she watches sports even tho she doesn’t like it because I do (I only make her watch championship games, nothing mid season), she likes to put Italian dressing in her scrambled eggs, I know her medications and what time of the day she needs to take them, I know her allergies, the locations of her childhood memories, I know her friends, I know that she’s more introverted how to tell when her social battery is low, I know her preferred jewelry style, I know what tarot deck she would purchase from a store at any given moment, I know what books to recommend her based on her genre and writing style preferences, I know she wants to be the one to hand our kids a dachshund for Christmas because she wants the opportunity to have that memory since I had that chance when I was a kid, I know what kinda airb&b she would prefer to stay in, her clothing sizes and shoe sizes…and that’s just because I love her. Am I a forgetful person? Yes of course I am, sometimes I write things down like her favorite order from a coffee shop just so I can surprise her with it when she comes home from work. Men, I promise you, loving your partner isn’t hard, it’s never been hard to want to make the person you love happy and feel cared for.
2026-09-02 19:26:31
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hotmessexpress2470
HotmessExpress247💙 :
But does anyone care how I feel when I go with him to Home Depot, Menards, Cabellas? They really feel everything should revolve around them, what they like, what their hobbies are etc. Funny how they can’t see it
2026-09-03 14:25:54
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user779541149
JustMe :
My great grandfather on my mom's side who was born in 1916 worshipped his wife. My father's father hated his. The energy in the two households was night and day. I learned very young hating on your partner was very wrong
2026-09-05 13:58:55
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user9185149975714
🫠 :
My entire life media has said men hate marriage, children and anything about family and now that we are like ok, cool don’t worry about it. They are like ‘male loneliness epidemic’ 😳 this is what you guys wanted
2026-09-03 16:55:22
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sillysylvie94
🪱ylvie :
me, a lesbian, thinking 10 immediately 😭 I'm so sorry to my straight queens out there
2026-09-03 13:46:46
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laurelannl
🐝🐝laurelannl🐝🐝 :
It's not new though. "The ol' ball and chain" is an old joke. And things like, "...to the moon, Alice!"
2026-09-03 16:22:40
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elleriane
Ellie :
And then you send them to do it alone if they hate their woman so much, they come home with the job half done and then you have to join them next time either way or do it yourself 🫠
2026-09-03 12:51:28
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hmecs072177
Heather :
my BF and I love going to Costco. I showed him this original post, and he said that they were sad
2026-09-02 19:16:07
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mayas_mama
Caitlyn’s Chaos KC :
My ex loved going to Costco with me, or anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I’ll never find that again, but I guess that’s ok too
2026-09-03 14:11:28
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rob.parfrey
Rob Parfrey :
i love my fiancèe. I will walk with her for hours testing perfumes, make up etc...
2026-09-03 13:50:36
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june.like.the.month.ca
June, like the Month 🤩 :
I refuse to go to Costco, but my husband loves Costco so he goes on his own 😂😂
2026-09-04 13:07:48
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ellatrix13
MozzarElla 🐏 :
Meanwhile my man is the one hyping up Costco to me and asking me to go with him. Ladies, pick a man that genuinely love you. Leave the moment you see this being done to you!
2026-09-03 06:00:06
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tinomangoes
Mango :
My husband loves me but he hates Costco but he will never ever say 0 because I like Costco and he likes seeing me happy
2026-09-03 14:47:34
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jenn232025
Jenn :
It’s always been a comedic trope. Go watch recordings of stand up comedy from decades ago. It’s not new.
2026-09-03 09:57:44
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test.depth
Test Depth :
What!? I love our grocery trips!!
2026-09-02 19:20:53
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navlab
NavLab :
I don’t know that it’s hatred so much as oblivious self-centeredness. Which isn’t any better, really.
2026-09-03 12:35:34
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infoseeker381
infoseeker :
Yes, but it's a rage bait video. How many guys said yes and they didn't use them in the video. how many guys were just telling you what you wanted to hear.
2026-09-02 19:20:41
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mattsmith3816
mattsmith3816 :
Can I just present another idea? We like different things, and things that you enjoy we might not enjoy as well. Imagine, men like sports, women like shopping…. Shopping with a wife is less fun for us, that doesn’t mean we hate our wives.
2026-09-02 20:01:09
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aal01990199
AA9901 :
You should ask Women how much they love going to the hardware, Autozone or sporting good stores. I hate going to any of these and I also don’t ever ask my husband to go shopping with me. I understand that’s not what he likes so why ask. Just like he doesn’t ask of me.
2026-09-04 18:01:16
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