Leapyeargirl76 :
Gonna comment one more time on this. And forgive me, brandy, if I sound like a crazy person lol after my divorce or whatever you wanna call it. I went down the rabbit hole of going on craigslist and doubles list and things of that nature, just trying to figure out what I wanted, what I was looking for I mean, yes, maybe some sort of excitement, considering I had personally been celibate for going on a good 5 years at that point and being on the apps and the chat apps, in particular, the whatsapp Kik snap . Men have absolutely no shame none zero! and i'm going to say about 80% of what was said to me, I know, had to be in some sort of garbage or manifestation or fantasies of kind and a lot of dudes were just real, okay with just talking. And texting and sending photos and yes, that includes photos of their wives and girlfriends! i always started my journey and my conversations. Telling everybody I was single, and I was looking for other single people. But before you knew it, people said they were single. And then little by little, you would realize they were not, and then now i'm seeing pictures of their wives and their mistresses. And it took a lot out of me, mentally, like I had to stop. Dating, I had to get off of the dating apps all together, because i'm thinking, wow, this guy's just having this general conversation with me. Chances are he's having some wild crazy. Nasty, far out left field conversations with other dudes in other places. take whatever you can out of what I said. I know it's a lot, but being a single woman that was older and just kind of dipping her toes a little bit. It grossed me out and scared the hell out of me.
2026-09-03 21:45:13