Grow with Kaela
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gjk :
they are narcisist with different name
2026-09-02 22:41:41
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Second Half :
My husband is a DA, he’s everything you say in every video. We’ve been going towards divorce. He asked for one. But he just changed his mind and said he wants to stay together and to be vulnerable and to be committed. Can he change if he gets help?
2026-10-14 11:04:26
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Savanah🌸 :
Why do they always call you emotionally unstable when you go off on them or tell them how you feel?
2026-09-02 20:26:06
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ejmharris :
Do they get better with work or is it all just a waste of time?
2026-09-03 02:51:32
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Amber Liddiard :
It really was a cycle, and it's crazy that I felt if we just had one more conversation, one more bonding moment, or one more future hope good enough everything would eventually level out. It never did
2026-09-04 02:07:20
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Archeohistorian :
“That dopamine hit” is narcissistic evil. Let’s stop calling dismissive avoidants anything other than people with a serious mental illness. It is far FAR beyond an “attachment style.”
2026-09-04 20:18:22
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Alesia Waugh :
Zero emotional involvement, zero
2026-09-03 23:30:50
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Sanchia Starr :
Well fearful avoidants also do this
2026-09-03 12:10:41
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Anna Rose Bollwage :
I'm so sick of putting people in boxes. no human has edges this clean. some people might act avoidant in one season and anxious the next. there is no way to predict human behavior.
2026-09-10 11:28:30
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katiebrown11 :
I can’t tell you how much you have helped me understand this so much.
2026-09-02 23:22:03
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MamaB :
So would they literally forget that they made a comment 10 m ago?
2026-09-07 15:38:21
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DAD BOD DHARMA :
And that’s why I get the the “my memory is not that great” comment all the time lol
2026-09-05 13:04:56
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Kari :
How do you know this
2026-09-02 21:18:54
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Laylah ✨🏳️🌈💪💋🖤✨ :
Mine told me many times I was the best thing in her life and she still tried me like I was the worst thing she ever had.
2026-09-03 00:05:36
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✝️ :
Finally started contacting divorce attys. 26 yrs married. I’ve never met anyone so cruel. Not physically. Emotionally. Silent treatment for weeks. I can’t take it anymore. No more begging. I’m done.
2026-10-23 01:27:35
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m i s t y 🌿 :
but there was love 🥺
2026-09-06 15:14:36
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Tequila Coco🥥🍍🔮🌙──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝── :
"i guess I never really prioritized relationships" WE ARE MARRIED 16 YEARS BRO I divorced him
2026-09-05 14:30:50
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Tone | Author & Human Systems :
Is this not some form of dissonance 🤦🏾♂️
2026-09-02 22:49:20
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Cinderella Rockafella :
I feel like divorce is inevitable 😔 especially since everytime they leave it costs so much $$$
2026-09-29 15:33:13
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Lisa :
Yessss!! I would send clips of our travels & activities & special moments and invariably I’d get a “nice” as the response. Fully emotionally detached from all of it.
2026-10-01 16:26:23
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electricalbananavintage :
So is it hopeless or can it be healed with therapy?
2026-10-26 13:05:08
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Kingfisher :
Such a good explaination🙏🏼
2026-09-02 20:22:46
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Lynnea Tanner :
I feel like they start off strong though and are with you in it but then as years go by that changes
2026-09-27 14:09:06
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bestdamnavocados :
this makes so much sense. my ex had said heartfelt things to me like "I would give you my life" and then would say something like "I never said that. I believe that YOU believe I said it but I didn't" or say that wasn't how he really felt. or would just downplay his own words and act like it wasn't serious only to turn around and change his mind again and tell me he actually cared deeply for me, etc. it was the worst emotional whiplash ever
2026-09-03 04:25:29
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Dave :
Yup, so true. I could/would bring up stuff, good or bad, that I clearly remembered… she had no clue
2026-09-09 22:18:50
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