Grow with Kaela
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Wednesday 02 September 2026 19:58:19 GMT
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abracadabra :
you and Mack are totally the best on here ..thank you
2026-09-02 21:28:28
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Thegr8condor :
This makes sense and that hurts more than
2026-09-12 06:40:27
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gjk :
they are narcisist with different name
2026-09-02 22:41:41
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ducktoy85 :
I feel sick thinking about it. She’s just ice cold 3,5 years later and a new bf.
2026-09-11 05:28:43
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Savanah🌸 :
Why do they always call you emotionally unstable when you go off on them or tell them how you feel?
2026-09-02 20:26:06
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Laylah ✨🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈✨ :
Mine told me many times I was the best thing in her life and she still tried me like I was the worst thing she ever had.
2026-09-03 00:05:36
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ejmharris :
Do they get better with work or is it all just a waste of time?
2026-09-03 02:51:32
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DAD BOD DHARMA :
And that’s why I get the the “my memory is not that great” comment all the time lol
2026-09-05 13:04:56
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MamaB :
So would they literally forget that they made a comment 10 m ago?
2026-09-07 15:38:21
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Sanchia Tulsi :
Well fearful avoidants also do this
2026-09-03 12:10:41
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katiebrown11 :
I can’t tell you how much you have helped me understand this so much.
2026-09-02 23:22:03
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Kari :
How do you know this
2026-09-02 21:18:54
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Anna Rose Bollwage :
I'm so sick of putting people in boxes. no human has edges this clean. some people might act avoidant in one season and anxious the next. there is no way to predict human behavior.
2026-09-10 11:28:30
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m i s t y 🌿 :
but there was love 🥺
2026-09-06 15:14:36
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Amber Liddiard :
It really was a cycle, and it's crazy that I felt if we just had one more conversation, one more bonding moment, or one more future hope good enough everything would eventually level out. It never did
2026-09-04 02:07:20
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Dave :
Yup, so true. I could/would bring up stuff, good or bad, that I clearly remembered… she had no clue
2026-09-09 22:18:50
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Alesia Waugh :
Zero emotional involvement, zero
2026-09-03 23:30:50
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Tone :
Is this not some form of dissonance 🤦🏾♂️
2026-09-02 22:49:20
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Tequila Coco🥥🍍🔮🌙──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝── :
he remembers me as selfish and didn't love him in fact it was 180º opposite
2026-09-05 14:30:05
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Kingfisher :
Such a good explaination🙏🏼
2026-09-02 20:22:46
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Tequila Coco🥥🍍🔮🌙──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝── :
"i guess I never really prioritized relationships" WE ARE MARRIED 16 YEARS BRO I divorced him
2026-09-05 14:30:50
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KrispyCritter1010 :
Yeah…… this makes sense 😬
2026-09-03 01:18:05
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bestdamnavocados :
this makes so much sense. my ex had said heartfelt things to me like "I would give you my life" and then would say something like "I never said that. I believe that YOU believe I said it but I didn't" or say that wasn't how he really felt. or would just downplay his own words and act like it wasn't serious only to turn around and change his mind again and tell me he actually cared deeply for me, etc. it was the worst emotional whiplash ever
2026-09-03 04:25:29
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safefromLC :
I remember my DA spouse was a raging workaholic. After 15 years of marriage I finally accepted her job was one of her walls from interacting with me and the kids. Only problem was it forced me to do the school runs, lunches, laundry, etc to the point that when Covid came around I became a SAHD without a single conversation. God forbid we ever have a conversation about my career while hers just goes on.
2026-09-08 20:28:24
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pirate_in_raleigh :
So that explains why my wife still believes when i said “I’ve thought about suicide for years” she took it and retains it as me saying she was the reason, and regardless how many times I’ve said i was not saying that nor did I say that and even gave examples years before i met her. (I’m almost secure now that was a couple years ago)
2026-09-07 21:03:37
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