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Jason McBride :
I am alone. Sexless marriage for 15 of 16 years. Separate beds for a decade. No alone time. She wont even watch TV with me. As a Christian Man that provides 250k a year lifestyle I'm just in a holding period.
2026-09-03 13:43:29
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cletusspuckler532 :
Oh no, she knows. She knows very well. She just doesn’t care.
2026-09-03 06:57:48
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David Hinds :
thats just a standard marriage after after 20 Years
2026-09-03 11:43:41
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It's Linny actually. :
Romantic relationships are so vastly overrated. One person can't possibly fulfill all needs, and not having friends or hobbies or interests outside will lead to emotional starvation. Don't make your spouse your only close friend, don't make their hobbies your only hobbies.
2026-09-03 05:49:10
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winegirl55 :
You are assuming that most husbands show up for their wives. You’re assuming that most husbands allow the emotional space for the woman to feel heard and trusted. Constant defensiveness, constant lack of contributing to the emotional, physical, and mental well-being of the entire household, builds up overtime. She probably doesn’t bring it up anymore because it always leads to defensiveness or an argument. So she just keeps quiet. Remember, a woman’s behavior is a direct reflection on the behavior of the husband. She is a mirror of the man.
2026-09-03 13:55:31
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Just a Dad :
I wish I didn’t relate to every single thing you just said.. and sadly the blame and responsibility will still rest on the shoulders of the man.
2026-09-03 11:13:50
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doctoreusabius :
go ahead. tell her that. let us know how it goes.
2026-09-03 10:50:33
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Joshua Brewer :
litterally just had this conversation with the wife yesterday pretty much Verbatim.
2026-09-03 13:09:03
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live.life.with.smile :
need ti make video longer... so whats next?
2026-09-03 05:01:06
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MihaiBravu1919 :
to avoid this, just don't get married
2026-09-03 08:28:45
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fat single :
she would walk around naked not rush to get dressed, sit for a while with a towel after shower but reminded me shes ill don't get any ideas don't touch her, tell me to go do chores, or go to my own room,it was no life for a husband, I was was just a housemate maid butler childminder carer go to work feeling low,sit in car wondering why im going home to no affection kiss cuddle, housework, separate empty bed ,8 wasted years
2026-09-03 06:23:26
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bahortin :
she does know it though. I have told her. our therapist has told her. have 8 fallen short 8n areas, yes. for the last year I have been working on being a better husband. nothing has changed.
2026-09-03 02:22:17
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Livingthedream :
This works both ways. As a woman I can relate
2026-09-02 22:15:15
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The_Fartinator :
this needs a part 2. so how do you resolve all of that?
2026-09-03 07:53:19
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Adriana Vieru :
Perfect! We both figured that out, but now our problem is: who needs to make THE CHANGE! I keep waiting for my husband to SEE ME, but he refuses to make any efforts until I make one :)) He says: “it’s not fair! Why can’t you just hug me more often?” I can’t just “have sex” when I feel it like a responsability. I need to feel it! To want it! But I need HIM to make me want it, not just wait for me to sneak out of the bedroom (our 5 year old daughter sleeps with me) and go to him, and then when I don’t do that, I get so many reproaches and stress and dissapointments. I’m sick of explaining to him that I genuenly need to be SEEN, touched, but not sexually. When guys were teens, they used to work to get sex. They used to buy flowers and do stuff. Now when they merry, they just expect for it to happen. The WOMAN in the wife dies, especially when children come. I think it’s the husband’s job to make some efforts to bring back the WOMAN in his wife. And that will not happen if men just wait for sex without doing anything for the WOMAN in their wife. I love my husband very very much. He is an amazing man, father, human, but he somehow sopped SEEING me and I am so tired :(
2026-09-03 06:48:39
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pauljwiles :
Yeah, hammer 🔨 nail head etc. what’s the solution though?
2026-09-03 06:14:20
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661 Lift & Prep :
I got ostracized by my old friend group, family all because i felt this for 3 years straight out of my 5 year marriage. I chose to walk away. From the neglect, lack of love, lack of intimacy, lack of communication but in the end I was the bad guy. I’m divorced officially now and will be marrying my gf and mother of my child now who I should’ve been with years ago.
2026-09-02 22:24:26
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Frankie Velez :
Genuine question: How else can I show up for her? Everything you describe is true amazing wife and mom. I take care of bills, chores (95% of them). Make sure our little one doesnt overwhelm her, take care of the night routine. How else can I show up for her?
2026-09-02 22:13:06
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Mixmastermcd :
Pretty much spot on, think modern day society and living within the average family breaks both partners down, both thinking their needs are not met, both run off their feet, maybe even resentful of each other once the years of arguing under these circumstances get long, there is no easy solution… as 99% of couples are in the same boat, it’s life, ye either plod on… or find someone else…and no doubt…you will have the same issues with years down the line😅
2026-09-03 06:01:39
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John Hermansson :
So true!
2026-09-03 10:34:38
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FromN0thing :
At this point I don’t even listen to the words I focus on the actions, because the actions don’t reflect the words
2026-09-03 12:09:14
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Jarle :
stop caring..
2026-09-03 07:52:47
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David S :
Part 2?
2026-09-03 11:57:36
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Blue Sooner :
Bingo!
2026-09-03 11:19:54
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Forge :
Everything you said I fully relate but like the comments below mentioned, what if you are turning up and you are filling her cup, giving her a massage, taking as much of her mental load and nothing changes. Then what
2026-09-03 04:55:23
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