@hummingbirdsongrising: Trauma responses can make us feel small, reactive, shut down, or overwhelmed—not because we’re weak, but because a younger part of us is being activated. Sometimes the reaction isn’t about this moment alone. It’s about the age, pain, and unmet need the wound still carries. Healing is learning to notice when that younger part shows up… and meeting her with compassion instead of shame. 🤍 You are not “too much.” You are responding from a place that once had to survive.
What if the trauma extended to the whole of your childhood . ?
2026-09-16 16:24:37
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Seedz :
This couldn’t be more true, when a child is abused the fear feels as real as it did when it first happened
2026-09-16 22:34:51
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Make it with me :
No wonder I act like a child mostly
2026-09-03 15:22:35
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zimi :
I used to defend a 5 year old in me
2026-09-17 04:13:04
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starlight☀️ :
I always wondered why can't I get out of acting like a child. I hate this about myself.
2026-09-17 03:11:31
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The Verdict :
What if you get wounded at every age?
2026-09-03 18:59:55
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Gammarama123 :
My husband 65 looks at me with tears filled behind his eyes and can't get the words out. I am not sure how to help him.
2026-09-03 13:53:38
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Pam :
So this makes perfect sense as to why I am so young at heart and never act my age . Guess my sense of humor is a cover up 🥰
2026-09-03 21:47:19
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John :
Can you have different ages for different traumas? And when triggered become 12 yrs old, 16 yrs old or 22 yrs old? 🤷♂️
2026-09-03 14:49:27
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AuntieK :
This is deep
2026-09-14 19:37:30
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LISA 🪳 :
Made in love, raised in hate.
2026-09-03 22:12:29
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Rebel_Honey :
Makes sense! I dealt with someone that every time their trauma was triggered, they were very immature
2026-09-03 16:30:04
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Batata :
That makes a lot of sense......unfortunately
2026-09-04 00:14:53
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The Big Don Dada 26 :
all of our moms and dads😭😭😭
2026-09-04 05:01:20
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Vickie :
I lived with abuse neglect and more.
I thought life would be better until 1999.
my emotional and physiological abuse changed me. severe depression.
I am 67 trying to find myself.
2026-09-04 02:33:02
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blastnomoe :
That makes so much sense, that got me
2026-09-03 15:25:15
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skullcandy_9786 :
Say it for the people in the back one more time!!!!!!
2026-09-03 14:30:01
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fionab92568 :
So I’m a 73 year old two year old?
2026-09-03 14:57:21
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zenilc5357 :
I’m learning so many things at 73yo, that I wish I had seen growing up. Would have made big differences today.
2026-09-03 13:31:47
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Huerta.420 :
Makes so fuckn sense
2026-09-04 07:32:13
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Lisa Marie 🌸 :
I guess I will never grow up 😞
2026-09-04 02:40:16
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𝐿𝒶𝓊𝓇𝒾𝑒 𝒥𝑜𝒽𝓃𝓈𝑜𝓃 :
This really helps a lot. 🥺 I understand now.
2026-09-04 02:59:51
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