@brains.secret: when the avoidant ghosted you but you study psychology and know that avoidants don’t run away from people they feel nothing for, it’s the exact opposite #brain #mind #mindset #psychology #relatable
This vid perfectly describes how delusional an avoidant will make you act
2026-09-04 05:54:51
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hillaryxmarie :
Not true. They don’t process emotions like healthy people do. They will chase who is comfortable for them… that to them is love. You were too much FOR Them so they check out. Move on and heal.
2026-09-03 19:39:52
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Deanne :
not rlly sometimes we rlly don't gaf
2026-09-03 16:52:18
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account not found :
I'm sorry, there will never be an excuse for ghosting.
2026-09-03 07:59:41
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Jordan 📚✨🧚🏻♀️🩷💜💙 :
As a person w avoidant tendencies,, I leave when I feel like my life is enmeshing with someone else’s and is beginning to feel like it’s no longer my own. I can’t imagine having to consult someone else to make decisions about my life. I value autonomy highly and can’t imagine giving that up. (This REALLY started after a long-term relationship with an anxiously attached narcissist that told me I was an extension of him)
2026-09-03 19:32:11
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TennisxCoffee :
Yes avoidants will avoid if they sense danger or anything fishy. There must be some reason in it. If people don't like you just accept it. Stop forcing what God forbid,
2026-09-03 10:03:09
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𝓛𝓮𝔁𝓲 :
nope avoidants leave when ur too much for them. constantly having to make sure we text and call to keep ppl around is exhausting. this is why most avoidants get attached to other avoidants, bc they arent overwhelming😭
2026-09-04 10:32:34
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Slond_ :
avoidants dont exist they just dont like you gang
2026-09-04 10:49:08
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♠️ :
That’s not true. They run from people they don’t gaf about too lol
2026-09-03 14:47:01
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Sahana Khan 🦋 :
they still ran away so who really cares about the psychology behind it
2026-09-05 06:15:00
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jaz :
i have avoidant tendencies and that is exactly why i don’t date. no one should have to deal w me😭
2026-09-03 23:56:48
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elma🍒 :
Thats true I ghost ppl that I like
2026-09-04 23:31:20
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M. :
nah we do run away.
2026-09-05 20:30:01
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lindy :
as an avoidant, i avoid people i don’t like too
2026-09-03 20:12:19
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Chloe Price :
Dating an avoidant was one of the worst experiences I had. I'm at a point where I don't want to date anymore because of her 😮💨
2026-09-05 21:28:58
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Scholar of Yore🪶 :
They crave love, yet run when it’s given. Humans are strange always wanting more, never appreciating enough 😩
2026-09-04 09:19:44
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STEDDY JAX :
Why can’t I just have normal love 😭
2026-09-03 06:38:55
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E :
Actually it’s because they don’t think you’re worthy enough for them to change their habit!
2026-09-04 16:07:50
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Lilia 🍉 :
comments acting like avoidant are a different species 😭 im avoidant, and im not a heartless manipulator
2026-09-05 01:20:48
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Fuyi :
I runaway from someone who demand something from me emotionally, or when their presence feels like a burden. Anything makes me attached or heavy, I run.
2026-09-04 06:10:24
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alice🪓 :
Orr sometimes people just genuinely don’t gaf about u or even texting u
2026-09-04 02:35:32
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𝓕𝓲𝓮𝓮𝓮 :
Ohww you study psychology? I must avoid you at all cost😂😂
2026-09-04 09:39:01
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ilovetounn :
Whole time he’s not avoidant, and he likes someone else
2026-09-03 17:59:45
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