@luke.mcginnis23: For years, I spent more time wondering if someone liked me than asking how I actually felt around them. At 42, I’m learning that the right connection shouldn’t feel like an audition. I don’t want someone I have to constantly impress. I want someone I can exhale around. Have you ever realized you were asking the wrong question?
strip things back and do you, someone will appear and they will fit perfectly
2026-09-04 21:26:59
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nc_carolinagirl72 :
Hi I’m very interested in you just being you
2026-09-03 01:09:07
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Jenny Beckman300 :
Dang if this isn’t me to a t
2026-09-03 21:22:38
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Stacy :
Love this. I feel the same way
2026-09-03 17:41:48
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Hopemore16 :
love this 💯💯
2026-09-04 09:24:59
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vialesh39 :
That is so important. We should feel free to be ourselves around the person we date or partner. If we have to think twice every time we want to do or say something, that is definitely a red flag and maybe not the right place.
2026-09-03 01:46:02
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BroomCouger72 :
this is probably a fake account!! there is so.many
2026-09-03 00:54:42
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Katie :
I have struggled with the same thing my entire life. I am 53 now and finally letting go of the people who do not bring out the best of me. Good luck out there! 🙏
2026-09-03 01:36:05
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Traci :
Exactly 👍
2026-09-03 00:24:22
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Tina :
Well said!
2026-09-03 00:29:03
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Angie Owsley :
I do the same thing
2026-09-03 01:21:51
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bstylmyhrt :
calmness and the feeling of home nail it!
2026-09-03 02:32:41
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MsJennaJoy :
We are enough. No more job interviews.
2026-09-03 04:07:21
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ashley_rice75 :
Does he think I’m a stalker because I comment on most of his videos…or am I really just someone who enjoys interacting with him 🤔🤗😂 #tobadiliveinNC
2026-09-03 00:36:01
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HM :
Made some hard choices recently and chose to walk away because even though he felt like home and connection was so strong, when I started questioning and decoding… it was time to walk away. No drama. No big goodbyes. Just walked away. I’m looking for someone who will love all of me… no games. Bare minimums no longer enough. This video really hit home today 🩵
2026-09-03 00:29:58
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🇨🇦Anastasia BlackRose🇨🇦 :
Well said. Keep being yourself and if people don't like you for you, they aren't worth your time. Dating Anxiety is so real and the older you get, you keep thinking, maybe I am better single. Keep Smiling. You will find her when you are least expecting it.
2026-09-03 00:38:16
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user7741225411751 :
I really appreciate your content. In my healing journey you sharing your healing journey is helping to heal me
2026-09-03 00:35:22
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sapphire_flame_rise :
100%
2026-09-03 00:42:20
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lauren :
yep!
2026-09-03 17:12:53
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nc_carolinagirl72 :
I feel like home,
2026-09-03 01:09:34
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🏳️🌈Shannon🏳️🌈 :
I like you... No come over here so you can see how you feel around me 🥰