Tala :
I have the same situation as you, Juliana. She’s been my bestie since high school. We were freshmen back then, and at first I thought it was okay because, you know, it’s nice to have someone with the same interests. But as time went by, I noticed she suddenly liked Taylor Swift. Before, I didn’t mind because like you guys said, “everyone can listen to and like Taylor” because that’s Taylor Swift, hello. We love taytay.
I also noticed that the people I followed on Instagram, she followed too, like international influencers. When we were in college, I noticed that whenever she smelled my perfume, she would immediately ask me where I got it. And of course, since I wasn’t as open-minded back then, I thought it was fine. We even ended up with matching bags because she would always find a way to buy the same one. Same lippies, same tumbler.
But I got sad when she started buying bow design things. I know you’re going to say, “bows are for everyone and they’re not yours,” but gosh, you don’t understand how disappointing it was because in our class, I was the only one buying bow things.
When we became professionals, I started not posting about what was happening in my life. ( I hide her ) And I recently found out that she has a room with the same design as mine.( nagalit ako yes because gosh being kikay is my branding ). I tried to calm down, then I posted my Victoria’s Secret pajama she didn’t know it was original from the States. Days later, she posted a mirror selfie wearing the same design of VS pajama. I also posted that I got a ticket to the LANY concert last march and she posted that she got a ticket too. Mind you, she’s not even a fan. She doesn’t even know that LANY is a band, not just “Lany is Paul.”
I recently posted a picture of me in a cafe with my Charles & Keith tote bag on the table. She asked me what bag it was, and I told her it was from TikTok. She also got an iPhone 17 Pro Max in silver, the same as mine, even though she just bought an iPhone 15, which was actually the one I was planning to buy but she got it first. :) Hindi nyo ramdam kasi hindi naman kayo ang ginagaya. Marami pa yan the place that I want to visit before na visit na nya. 🥺
2026-09-03 08:48:20